From: https://youtube.com/watch?v=5l7FgwX6DdI
Context: Throughout this transcript, Bhante Vimalaramsi is the speaker unless otherwise indicated.
the trick
is to remember it that's what
mindfulness is
for to remember to do this
to remember to observe what your mind is
doing in the present moment
and if your mind is suffering then to
let go six are that suffering
and then gently come back
to being happy
there's nobody out there
that's causing your pain
you cause your pain yourself
and the more you take on one of these
hindrances and make it yours
personally the more emergency there is
in
it and that's why people are taking so
many drugs because they're depressed
because they don't know what's happening
and they want some relief
what is depression i'll tell you exactly
it's a painful feeling that arises
and then the craving comes up i don't
like that feeling
and then the clinging arises that's all
of your thoughts opinions concepts
stories about why you don't like that
feeling
and then you fall into your habitual
tendency of trying
to think the feeling away
and it doesn't work it only makes the
feeling bigger and more intense
so what to do
practice your loving kindness and you'll
see what to do
people that are depressed are very
self-centered
oh i feel so miserable
and they cry a lot and they oh they make
themselves even more miserable the more
they fight with the feeling
trying to control the feeling with their
thoughts
have to let go of those thoughts
have to relax
then you have to notice that tight
mental fist around that feeling
it's painful yeah it's painful
it's all right for it to be painful it
has to be because that's the dhamma
that's the truth when a painful feeling
arises
it's there what you do
with what arises in the present moment
dictates what happens in the future
so it's a painful feeling so what allow
the space for it to be there
as you stop feeding that painful
feeling the painful feeling will fade
away by itself
but you feed that painful feeling with
your thoughts
right
so i've just given you
what at least three months of what a
psychiatrist
would try to give you and i gave it to
you in five minutes should i get that
kind of money for doing that
see
i've just told you exactly what
what depression is and it doesn't matter
if it's depression
or fear or anxiety
or worry or doubt
or anger it doesn't matter
what it is
you treat it always in the same way
and it takes practice to be able to do
that
and the practice that i'm showing you
right now
is it works
the trick
is to remember it that's what
mindfulness is
for to remember to do this
to remember to observe what your mind is
doing in the present moment
and if your mind is suffering then to
let go six are that suffering
and then gently come back
to being happy
there's nobody out there
that's causing your pain
you cause your pain yourself
and the more you take on one of these
hindrances and make it yours
personally the more emergency there is
in
it and that's why people are taking so
many drugs because they're depressed
because they don't know what's happening
and they want some relief
what is depression i'll tell you exactly
it's a painful feeling that arises
and then the craving comes up i don't
like that feeling
and then the clinging arises that's all
of your thoughts opinions concepts
stories about why you don't like that
feeling
and then you fall into your habitual
tendency of trying
to think the feeling away
and it doesn't work it only makes the
feeling bigger and more intense
so what to do
practice your loving kindness and you'll
see what to do
people that are depressed are very
self-centered
oh i feel so miserable
and they cry a lot and they oh they make
themselves even more miserable the more
they fight with the feeling
trying to control the feeling with their
thoughts
have to let go of those thoughts
have to relax
then you have to notice that tight
mental fist around that feeling
it's painful yeah it's painful
it's all right for it to be painful it
has to be because that's the dhamma
that's the truth when a painful feeling
arises
it's there what you do
with what arises in the present moment
dictates what happens in the future
so it's a painful feeling so what allow
the space for it to be there
as you stop feeding that painful
feeling the painful feeling will fade
away by itself
but you feed that painful feeling with
your thoughts
right
so i've just given you
what at least three months of what a
psychiatrist
would try to give you and i gave it to
you in five minutes should i get that
kind of money for doing that
see
i've just told you exactly what
what depression is and it doesn't matter
if it's depression
or fear or anxiety
or worry or doubt
or anger it doesn't matter
what it is
you treat it always in the same way
and it takes practice to be able to do
that
and the practice that i'm showing you
right now
is it works