From: https://youtube.com/watch?v=fXfsOGhvaTE
Context: Throughout this transcript, Bhante Vimalaramsi is the speaker unless otherwise indicated.
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that's what
your habitual tendency is that's what
we've been doing since we're little kids
we got upset in one emotional way or
another
and
we try to think it away
and you get into your aversion and your
frustration and your anger
and you keep on punishing yourself
one of the big things that's happening
these days is a feeling
arising
and
the
people will break out in the sweat and
you'll get short of breath and you start
really fighting it and you don't want
this
a panic attack
okay what is a panic attack really
i mean
you look at it as what happened first
what happened after that what happened
after that
it's a feeling that arises
you can be afraid of that feeling
but what happens after that
well then you start fighting with it you
start thinking about it and you want it
to stop and you break out into the sweat
and you're about ready to faint
well
okay
you can do that
or i had a student that was sitting in
the middle of a crowd
she started to have a panic attack
now she told me before
that whenever she had a panic attack
it took her three days to get over it
three days
and she would go into her room she
didn't want to talk to anybody
she closed all the windows
didn't let any light in at all
and just suffered for three days until
finally her mind just let it go
but now she has a panic attack coming
and she's very familiar with it
oh
no i can't get up and leave because i
have a panic attack
but you know if this monk is really true
if he's telling me the truth about this
all i have to do is allow that feeling
to be there and relax into it
and listen to what he's saying
and she did it
and it took her two minutes to get over
her panic attack that took three days
that was her choice
and she she got really radiant right
after that i'm giving the talk and all
of a sudden i'm looking at this lady
being
bright and and happy
and i said wow she must really be
absorbing what i'm saying here that
makes me feel good
so after the after the talk she came up
to me and thanked me
very sincerely
and
i have talked with her since then
and i asked her if she has any panic
attacks she said no i've let those go
like it was nothing
you can do that
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you