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Context: Throughout this transcript, Bhante Vimalaramsi is the speaker unless otherwise indicated.
i'm going to go through the instructions
in the meditation
and then give you some idea of what i
expect
when you practice loving kindness
meditation you first start by sending
loving and kind thoughts to yourself
you bring up a warm glowing feeling a
happy feeling in the center of your
chest
as soon as that feeling arises
then you make a wish for your own
happiness
may i be happy
may i be peaceful and calm
may my mind be filled with joy
whatever wish you make for yourself
you want to feel that wish
you know what it feels like to be happy
you know what it feels like to be
peaceful and calm
bring that feeling up and put that
feeling right in the center of your
chest
and radiate that feeling to yourself
while you're doing this your mind is
going to wander you're going to start
thinking about other things
as soon as your mind begins to wander
and you notice that
gently let go of the thought how do you
let go of the thought
you let go of the thought
by not keeping your attention on it
now i didn't bring my brain with me
that sounds a little bit crazy
your brain
has two sections like this and around
each section is a membrane it's called
the meninges
every time you have a thought every time
a feeling arises every time a sensation
arises
the meninge contracts a little bit and
causes tension and tightness
you need to be able to recognize that
you have that tension and tightness in
your head your brain
and relax that
okay
now this is a smiling meditation
and i want everybody to smile
all of the time
okay
that's easy
so you re-smile
and you bring your attention
back to your object of meditation your
object to meditation is a feeling of
loving kindness
and then you make another wish for your
own happiness
and put that in your heart
it doesn't matter how many times your
mind wanders away
okay it's going to do that because your
mind is used to thinking all the time
every time you recognize that your mind
has wandered away simply
gently
let go of
that
distracting thought
relax the tightness
caused by that thought
smile
come back to your object to meditation
if you do that 50 times in a sitting
and 50 times you recognize that your
mind is distracted you let go of the
distraction you relax smile and come
back
that is a good sitting
a bad sitting
these thoughts are so important i have
to continue thinking them
so you let go of all the distracting
thoughts
you let go by not keeping your attention
on them
distracting thought arises
the way you don't keep your attention on
it
is you put your attention on relaxing
then you put your attention on smiling
then you put your attention on your
object of meditation and stay with your
object to meditation as long as you can
you can't criticize yourself because you
think you're supposed to be doing better
that's an unwholesome unwholesome state
just recognize okay my mind wants to be
real active right now that's fine
let it be
smile come back and stay with it as long
as you can
this is called the six r's
you recognize that your mind is
distracted
you release the distraction
you relax the tightness caused by that
distraction you re-smile
you return to your object to meditation
and you repeat staying with your object
to meditation for as long as you can
now the smiling
is exceptionally important
okay
it doesn't mean you have to have this
big toothy grin
a smile is
a smile in your mind
a smile with your eyes even though
you're sitting and you close your eyes
that lets go of a lot of tension when
you smile with your eyes
a little tiny buddha image smile
and
a smile in your heart
every time you notice that you're not
smiling it's time to start smiling again
okay so i want you to smile i don't care
what you're doing
i don't care if you're eating i don't
care if you're taking a shower if you're
going to the bathroom
you're walking from one place to another
smile
no i'm a little bit of a sneaky monk
and when you smile
it improves your mindfulness
what is mindfulness now this is a major
question
mindfulness is remembering to observe
how mind's attention moves from one
thing to another
it's just observing
your mind is here
on your object of meditation and gets
distracted
how did that happen
not why we don't care about why y is for
psychologists
what we're interested in is how did your
mind's attention
move from being with your object to
meditation to that distraction
when you're smiling it improves your
mindfulness so you are able to observe
how these tiny little movements of mind
attention actually do occur
so it's real important to keep your
smile going
and smile in your mind your smile in
your heart
little smile with your lips
i just got back from
malaysia
and people were very anxious to learn
how to practice loving kindness now
these malaysians mostly
are
chinese
and they are very
serious people
so getting them to smile is not an easy
task
so one day i was giving a dhamma talk
and i looked out and nobody was smiling
and i said why aren't you smiling
and i had a feather that i picked up off
the ground and i said i'm going to come
around i'm going to start tickling you
if you don't smile
it's that important
the more you smile the lighter your mind
becomes
the lighter your mind becomes the better
your mindfulness becomes
the better your mindfulness becomes the
easier it is to observe how mind's
attention moves
so it's a real important thing
that you
continually smile
now one of the things in malaysia in
particular is they've been taught
how to practice meditation and try
really hard
so when they sit in meditation they're
sitting like this
without
any lightness in their mind at all
and if you don't have lightness in your
mind your mindfulness is out the window
it just doesn't work
so it's a real important thing to
remember that you need to keep smiling
but don't criticize yourself when you
forget just start again
it doesn't matter how many times you
have to start again
what matters is
that you remember
now these six r's
the recognize release relax re-smile
return repeat
is not
individual steps
it's just
your doing
these in a flow
you recognize it you release you relax
you smile come back
a mistake that a lot of people do when
they first start out is they try to say
i i gotta remember each one of these
steps
but it's the doing
not the remembering
okay you don't have to remember the
steps you have to do the steps
you will hear me repeat this often
it will become second nature as you
practice
now when you're sitting i don't care
whether you sit on the floor in the
chair seems like most people really like
the chair
sit with your back nicely straight
not rigid but nicely straight
with one vertebrae on top of the other
don't lean heavily in the chair because
that'll put you to sleep
don't move your body at all
you can move as much as he does
okay
while you're sitting like this you will
have some sensations arise
you have an itch
feel like coughing
heat arises vibration of some sort or
even pain can arise
don't move your body
don't wiggle your toes don't wiggle your
your fingers don't scratch don't rub
don't change your posture
don't rock back and forth
sit very still
the whole
thing with doing this meditation is to
be able to watch how mind's attention
moves
if you move your body and you scratch
and itch now you got to start all over
again
so when a sensation arises let's say you
have a pain in your knee or your back or
your bottom wherever it happens to be
the first thing you'll notice is you
begin to think
about
that sensation
i wish it would stop why does it have to
happen now
why doesn't it just go away and leave me
alone i hate these kind of feelings when
they come up
every thought about the sensation
causes the sensation to get bigger and
more intense
so the first thing you have to do is
recognize that you're thinking
let go of that
that thinking and relax
now
you'll notice that there is a tight
mental fist wrapped around that
sensation i don't like that sensation i
don't want it there
but the truth is
when a sensation arises
it is there
that's the truth
anytime you try to change the truth
anytime you try to
stop the truth from being there
you're fighting
with
the truth
and this causes suffering
so you
let go of that tight mental fist the
truth is that sensation is there okay it
can be there it has to be okay because
that's the truth
allow that to be there
relax the tightness in your head
re-smile
come back to your object to meditation
the nature of these kind of sensations
is they don't go away right away
so
your attention will go back to it
so you do the same thing again any
thoughts about that sensation let them
go and relax
let go of that tight mental fist
relax
smile
come back to your object to meditation
stay with that as long as you can
so you're gonna bounce back and forth
for a little bit
and that's okay
a lot of people have the idea that
meditation is about
concentration but the meditation that
the buddha taught
is about being able to observe how
mind's attention moves from one thing to
another
i don't want you
focusing so hard on your object to
meditation that you forget that you have
to relax
the relaxed step is
the main difference
between
this practice
and any other meditation that you might
have practiced before
oh
what
is
craving
every time i gave a dhamma talk i would
always ask these people what is craving
you've heard about it your whole life
what is it how does it arise how are you
able to recognize it
tension is always recognized
craving is always recognized as tension
and tightness in your mind and in your
body
a lot of people think
that their body is from their neck down
and mind is from the neck up
but that's not right
your body is from the top of your head
down
now the first thing that happens in your
mind
when craving arises is there's this
contraction
it's
tightness it's a tightness in thinking
it's a tightness in the way you perceive
the world
and you have to be able to recognize
when it's there
and relax
as soon as you relax that tension and
tightness
that craving
you'll notice that your mind is clear
your mind is bright
your mind is very alert
and there's no thoughts
there's only this pure mind
so then you smile and bring that mind
back to your object of meditation
craving
is
the i like it i don't like it mind
a feeling arises
it's painful
i don't like that
that's craving
that craving can always be recognized as
this tension and tightness in your head
so you see that and you relax
now what you're going to hear a lot
about
is
how this process works
and this process is called dependent
origination
you have a good working eye
i hits color and form
i consciousness arises
the meaning of these three things
is called eye contact
with eye contact as condition i feeling
arises
it's either pleasant
or it's painful or it's neither painful
nor pleasant
right after that
if it's a pleasant feeling i like it
that tightness arises if it's a painful
feeling i don't like it
that tightness arises
right after that
this is where
clinging arises clinging is all of your
thoughts all of your ideas all of your
opinions
all of your concepts and story about why
you like or dislike that feeling
right with that as condition
then you have your habitual emotional
tendency arise
when this kind of feeling arises i
always act that way
when this painful feeling arises i
always try to control the feeling
with
my thoughts
now you're made up of five different
things you have a physical body you have
feeling pleasant painful neither
pleasant nor painful
you have perception
perception is the part of the mind that
names things this is the thought the
start of concepts
and
when you when you look at this you say
well this is a fan
perception is a part of your mind that
put that name on that
you have thoughts
you have consciousness
when a feeling arises the first thing we
try to do is control the feeling with
the thoughts
and the more we try to control the
feeling with the thoughts
the more caught up and pain we cause
ourself
and this leads to the birth of action
and
that leads
to sorrow
lamentation
pain
grief
and
you can tell they've heard me say this
before
that's the cause of suffering
okay so what we're trying to do is
recognize
okay
there's you have a good working eye
there is color and form high
consciousness arises
it's a pleasant feeling or painful
feeling
then the craving arises the tension and
tightness
now you have all of your thoughts and
opinions and ideas about that your story
about that and then the emotional
tendency arises of always trying to
control
your feeling
with the thought
and that causes the birth of action
which leads to
suffering
so
meditation is not about
developing extreme
one-pointedness
that stops this process from happening
meditation is about learning how mind's
attention actually
does work
okay when you're sitting and you're
sending loving and kind thoughts to
yourself
anything that pulls your mind away from
the feeling of loving kindness and
radiating that feeling from your heart
is
a hindrance it is a distraction
you treat all distractions in exactly
the same way
as soon as you recognize it
you release it you relax
you re-smile you return to your object
to meditation
and repeat staying with your object of
meditation as long as you can
this relaxed step
is the key
okay
this and the smile
are extremely important
now what we're practicing here
is right effort
an eighth whole path you have right
effort right
okay right effort has four parts
you recognize when an unwholesome state
arises
you release that unwholesome state and
relax
you bring up a wholesome state
smile
and come back to your object of
meditation
you stay with that object of meditation
for as long as you can you keep
repeating staying with that
so the more
you practice with the six r's
the sharper your mindfulness becomes
the clearer it is to recognize
when your mind gets distracted
there are some people that practice one
pointed concentration they come to the
retreat and they forget about the
relaxed step
and if you forget the relaxed step you
develop one pointed concentration
now the problem with one pointed
concentration
there's a couple problems actually
the first real major problem is that
when your your mind is over concentrated
it suppresses hindrances
pushes them down
you don't do it on purpose it is the
force of the concentration that pushes
this down
now if you push down the hindrance that
means it doesn't have a chance to arise
and when it doesn't arise when you lose
your concentration
guess who comes to dinner
guess who comes and visits
and causes all kinds of problems
because you're not able to recognize the
hindrances when they arise
because of the force of the
concentration that they use that you use
and that causes the hindrances
to be much bigger and more intense
if you don't use the relaxed step
you don't have any real personality
change
okay
and this is really important it's it's
not a little thing
how do you recognize when you're
progressing on the path
the first way you can recognize it is
your sense of humor changes
you stop laughing at things
you start laughing with things
your mind is uplifted all the time
you're more happy you're more content
and those
unbelievable emotional rollercoaster
rides that you're used to going through
when you add this relaxed step it starts
to be more like little waves that you go
through
and you start developing
your
equanimity so the things that used to
get you angry
now you look at that and go hmm
okay
now this is important
stuff the more you can remember to relax
and not just stay on an object of
meditation
the more aware you become
of how mind's attention moves
so after about 10 minutes
of
sending loving and kind thoughts to
yourself
then you start sending loving and kind
thoughts
to a spiritual friend
a spiritual friend is somebody of the
same sex
and they are alive
preferably not a family member
especially if you're living with them
because you can love them dearly but
sometimes you want to kill them
and they do something you don't like and
you send loving and kind thoughts to
them and before long you're thinking of
all of the reasons why you don't really
like them very much at that moment
okay so don't choose a family member
choose somebody that's a little bit more
distant
pick a friend
that you sincerely wish happiness for
it's somebody that you respect it's
somebody that you really like and
sincerely do wish them well
and stay with that person
smile to that person
in your mind's eye see them smiling back
to you
so
the more you can stay with your
spiritual friend
for the longer periods of time
then all of a sudden your mindfulness
slips for whatever reason
you get a little bored
you get a little frustrated because it
doesn't seem like things are happening
the way you'd like them to happen
whatever
now this is a hindrance
it pulled you away from your spiritual
friend now you're thinking of something
else
let it be
relax
smile
bring that smile back to your spirit
spiritual friends stay with your
spiritual friend as long as you can
now people think that hindrances are
something that they're quote not
supposed to have
and
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they
have a tendency to try to fight them
but the hindrances
are
very important
the hindrances arise
and they're showing you where your
attachments are
okay
what is an attachment
i am these thoughts
these are my thoughts
and my opinions and my ideas
anything that you take personally
is an attachment
so a hindrance arises you feel a little
bit anxious you feel like
your mind is just
taking off all the time
that's fine
let it be relax smile
come back to your object to meditation
bounce back and forth for a little while
that's fine
now
generally when a hindrance arises i am
there
okay
so i want to control it so i push it
away
and it pushes back and it gets stronger
and more intense
and i push harder
now when i am not there when that
relaxed step
takes that false idea of itself away
then there is just this hindrance and
it's nothing to push against
so it gets weaker
and weaker
until finally
it fades away
when it fades away
you feel a very strong sense of relief
right after that
you feel
real strong joy
the kind of joy you feel is
light in your mind
light in your body
and there's some excitement in it oh
this is good stuff i like this
okay now that feeling will be there for
a little while
and then it'll fade away
when it fades away you will feel very
tranquil
very peaceful and calm
you'll feel comfortable in your mind and
in your body
that's what the buddha called happiness
your mind will stay on your objective
meditation without much effort at all
you're still going to have a few
thoughts but they're really easy to
catch and let go of and relax and smile
and come back
now i just described to you what it's
like to experience the first genre
so
any
kind of hindrance that arises it doesn't
matter if it's a dislike
or anger
or sadness or fear
or anxiety or whatever the catcher of
the day happens to be
it's all right for it to be there it has
to be all right because it's the truth
when it's there it's there
your job is to get out of the way and
allow it to be there by itself
and relax
that tension caused by that distraction
it's pretty simple
not always easy
but pretty simple
okay
the buddha's teaching
is real amazing right now because you
you talk with all of these
quote scholars and they are into
such complicated methods
and ways of describing things and that's
not the way the buddha taught
the buddha taught
in a very simple easy to understand way
the more you can remember
to do this
to use the six r's and let go of tension
and tightness in your mind
the faster your progress becomes
now to sit
at least for 30 minutes to start off
with
at least for 30 minutes
i don't care if you feel restless you're
jumping out of your skin or you're
sleepy and you need to
move around i don't care
you sit for at least 30 minutes
okay
after 30 minutes
if you want to sit longer you can
or if you want to get up and walk
that's fine
stay with your spiritual friend
see your spiritual friend in your mind's
eye
for some people that means
they can visualize and see them
that's great
if you can't visualize them
you know you're sending that loving
kindness to them that's another kind of
imaging
and that's fine too
when you walk you don't walk slowly you
walk at a regular pace
keep your eyes down
don't be looking around because if you
look around there goes your mind
now you're starting to think about this
and think about that that's a
distraction
so you want to keep your eyes down not
looking straight down
but i didn't know
seven eight nine feet in front of you
but stay with your spiritual friend
now when people get sleepy
they have sloth and torpor
what you do when you have sloth and
torpor is pick a spot where you can walk
back and forth
okay
make a spot on the ground put a line
there or stick or something so you know
where where it is and do that on the
other end then you walk forward
stop
30 or 40 feet
don't turn around
stay with your spiritual friend but walk
backwards
and this will help pick up your energy
and the sloth interpret
isn't so strong
sloth and torpor arises because
you're not
keeping
interested in sending your spiritual
friend
happy loving thoughts
you're starting to let your mind kind of
wander a little tiny bit
and then your mind starts to get a
little bit dreamy
and then it gets major dreamy
and then you start slumping
and then all of a sudden your head is
bobbing
now this happens because you didn't keep
your attention on your object of
meditation and you let those little tiny
thoughts come in
and that was more interesting than your
object of meditation
and then your energy went down and then
you start
going through this process
now when that happens
sit with your back a little bit
straighter
than normal
okay
so when your back starts to slump it's
easy to recognize that
then you can straighten up
and come back to your object and
meditation more easily
that way you can overcome the
sleepiness more quickly
but the cause of the sleepiness is lack
of sincere attention
and you'll get to know that
pretty well
tonight and tomorrow i'm sure
okay
really you're sleepy get up go out walk
um i understand we're going to be having
some high winds try to walk out of the
wind as much as possible because it
really is a distraction
anyway
walk at a regular pace
almost everybody that teaches meditation
tells you that you have to walk really
slowly and put your attention on your
feet
if you put your attention on your feet
you're already removed away from what
mind is doing
so you want to
stay with your spiritual friend
walk
no less than 15 minutes now what the
walking does is it helps pick up your
energy
and it helps the circulation in your
body
okay
so walking slow doesn't do that
you want to walk at a normal pace so you
have your blood circulating a little bit
if your meditation is good while you're
walking you can walk longer
up to 30 minutes
so between 15 minutes and 30 minutes
then come back in
sit down
start sending loving and kind thoughts
to yourself
for the first 10 minutes
all the rest of the time to your
spiritual friend
i don't care whether you're eating
or taking a shower or going to the
bathroom whatever you happen to be doing
stay with your spiritual friend and you
better be smiling or i'll get you
okay
if you do this without adding anything
or without subtracting anything
your progress is going to be very fast
and i'm getting spoiled these days
because i'm used to people going very
fast
okay
now
i i used a word
a little while back that was
the word jhana
and jhana is a word
that almost everybody translates as
concentration and that's not jhana
jhana
is
your
level of understanding
understanding what
how
mind's attention moves from one thing to
another
now when
in
indonesia i gave a
two-week retreat
i don't know
i gave so many retreats from the last
little bit i have no idea
what the length was some of them were
two
ten days and some of them were two weeks
doesn't matter
after the first week
90 of the people
had gotten to the fourth china
after the first six or seven days
i'm used to that
if that doesn't happen for you i'm going
to be questioning you pretty heavily
why aren't you following the directions
what are you doing that is causing the
slow progress
so there's there's a lot of different
signs that i'm able to recognize and i
don't tell you what drama you're in it
doesn't matter what genre you're in
what matters is your understanding
and what you're going through with your
meditation
so i'm able to recognize it it doesn't
matter whether you recognize it or not
too much has made
a big deal of
in
almost everybody that practices
quote concentration
ah i can get into the second genre i'm
really special
and you come and try that with me and
i'll go so
why aren't you in the third yet
that's just a level of understanding
so while you're eating you stay with
your spiritual friend
while you're going to the bathroom or
you're brushing your teeth you're
smiling you're staying with your
spiritual friend
all the time
whenever you notice that you're not with
your spiritual friend then you six are
whatever the distraction is and come
back and
start over
it's that simple
so the more you can
do this
the easier the practice becomes
and you will really start to understand
how your mind is working
and how you cause pain to yourself
when you start taking things personally
when you start saying well he's not
doing it the way i want it done
and i don't like that
well who who's saying that
am
really
who's causing themselves pain
i am
who needs to let go of what
i need to let go of this
tension and tightness that i haven't
recognized in my mind and in my body
it's really amazing
every time you relax that tension and
tightness
every time
right after that your mind is clear
and bright
and there's no distractions in your mind
and you bring that mind with the smile
back to your object of meditation
that's why your progress is fast with
this meditation because you are learning
how one to recognize craving
to how to let it go
so the more you can practice this way
the easier
the practice becomes
the better your understanding becomes
and
the more you will get out of each dharma
talk
it's pretty amazing
okay
i want everybody to get up at five
o'clock
at 5 30
at 5 25 sharp
be here
don't
make other people wait for you
okay that's not polite
we will
go through
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reciting the refuges and the precepts
and some verses out of the dhammapada
and then we will sit
and or walk
until seven o'clock
and that's time for breakfast
after breakfast then there's a little
work period
that will last till nine o'clock
so after breakfast you get
go brush your teeth take care of your
personal things
then you have a work period now the work
period is part of the meditation
too many times people have this idea
that meditation is just about sitting
okay and that's not all meditation
is meditation is about living
it is about being able to recognize
what's happening in your mind
and how to let go of
distractions so you can be in the
present moment with what you're doing
while you're doing it
and you certainly can be smiling while
you do that
ah but it's only vacuuming the floor
fine smile be happy
but i don't like vacuuming the floor i
don't care
you can still smile and be happy right
what is i don't like anyway outside of
an opinion
on what's an opinion well that's part of
craving
that's part of clinging
that's part of my old habitual tendency
that's part of
the pain that you're causing yourself
and we do it all the time to ourselves
so when you come to the retreat and you
have a work period
it's still time to be working
with staying with your spiritual friend
smiling having fun
doing
and the more fun you have with the
meditation
the faster your progress becomes
simple
again not always easy but simple
okay
lunch
after the work period it's walking and
sitting and you're you're doing it at
your own pace
when the sitting is good sit longer as
long as you're comfortable
if you start getting a little
uncomfortable want to get up and do some
walking okay fine do it
there aren't going to be any bells
except
lunch
and breakfast
and tea time
lunch is at 11 o'clock
then after lunch
you have a chance to do your personal
things brush your teeth and whatever
and
take rest
till one o'clock
okay
at one o'clock
be here
start your afternoon session
walk and sit until
five thirty five
five
an hour
30 5 30. oh
three times at 5 30. okay
now at tea time this is not chit chat
time
okay
it's time to get something and put it in
your stomach a little bit
now
you're gonna be taking eight precepts
the precepts are incredibly important to
keep
because if you break one of the precepts
it's going to affect your meditation
negatively
you're going to have a lot of
restlessness
there is no evening meal
at six o'clock i will start a dhamma
talk i get long-winded sometimes and
last till even eight
sometimes it's even been longer than
that
depends
and then there is walking and sitting
chit chat time
until 10 o'clock
and i really would like you to stay here
until 10 o'clock
now
you go to bed at ten o'clock
you sleep until five o'clock that's
seven hours
you get an hour after lunch that's eight
hours
so you're getting plenty of sleep
in malaysia
they make people that are coming to do a
retreat
they make them start at some some places
it's four o'clock and some places it's
three o'clock in the morning
and i've played that game i've done it
and you walk around being tired all the
time what kind of mindfulness is that i
want to make sure you have enough rest
and if it's not enough rest i want you
to come and tell me
we'll adjust
now the not eating after 12 o'clock if
anybody here has to take medicine in the
evening and they need to have something
to eat
come and tell me
don't just
go off and sneak something to eat
tell me and we'll arrange things
okay
but if you happen to break a precept i
want you to come to me right straight
away and tell me
and then there's no finger pointing it's
just you know you broke a precept that's
fine
now we'll take the precepts again with
the determination not to do that again
if you try to tough your way through it
then you can look forward to having
really lousy meditation and i don't want
that for you i want you to have great
meditation
not just good meditation
everybody here is very capable of great
meditation
just follow the instructions the way
they're being given
now these are not
quote
my instructions these are the buddha's
instructions
i've had lived a little bit and i've
added a couple of extra steps to write
effort just because it makes it easier
to remember
but right effort is still right effort
it's still recognizing unwholesome
states
releasing the unwholesome states and
relaxing the tightness caused by that
bringing up a wholesome state staying
with the wholesome state as long as you
can
have
fun
with your meditation
i know it's not
normally
uh
thought that meditation is fun but it
sure can be
and you can start giggling and laughing
and having real good fun with yourself
while you're doing your meditation
it does happen
if you're serious
you can look forward to having lousy
meditation
okay
it's that simple
why because when you're serious
i'm trying hard
i'm trying to make this happen the way
it's
supposed to happen
well get rid of that one
just smile into that
laugh with yourself for
trying to make something happen
and as soon as you laugh all of a sudden
i am not there anymore
it's only
this distraction
if it's anger if it's dissatisfaction
anxiety whatever
it's only that it's not mine i didn't
ask it to come up i can't make it go
away but i can laugh and let it be
without keeping my attention on it
anyone else
okay let's share some merit that
may suffering ones be suffering free and
the fear struck fearless
[Music]
may all beings share this merit that
we've thus acquired for the acquisition
of all kinds of happiness
many beings inhabiting states and earth
is
you