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Context: Throughout this transcript, Bhante Vimalaramsi is the speaker unless otherwise indicated.
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so
okay so not to fear no dependent
origination tonight
no links
just a fun talk
this talk is about the subject of donna
or generosity and giving
and there's going to be a number of
little suttas that i've kind of pulled
out of things
and it's kind of fun stuff you know i
always enjoyed
the the subject of generosity when i
started going through this whole process
because
it you know you start talking about the
benefits of it
and it's really kind of exciting
you know it's things that you can do
to
make things better you know we're all
looking for our 401ks
well this is the donna 01k or
however you want to say it you know the
things that you can
benefit yourself in the
future um
so last time i did like a half hour and
this time i'm just going to do a full
talk i was talking to delson
and i said we don't really cover we
there's three pillars of the dhamma
and that's morality
which is precepts and all of the rules
and there is
donna which is
generosity
and then there is bhavana which is
meditation
so
you're all doing you know the first and
third ones all of the time
but the second one is more for after the
retreat
um
yeah you can be generous in some ways on
this retreat but for the most part
you're you're just busy developing the
mind
and the precepts are all kind of
automatic
you're just following those uh as
part of your retreat
so the the first you know when you get
out into the world
um the challenge will be those first two
precepts and of course keeping some
meditation going but making sure that
you're following your rules
and doing things that will help your
mind like donna
so the first thing i'm going to do
is read from suta number majima nikaya
142
the
dakina vibanga suta
this is the exposition of the offerings
thus of i heard on one occasion the
blessed one was living in the sakian
country
at kapalavatu in negrodus park
then maha prajapati gotami took a new
pair of cloths and went to the blessed
one
now maha prajapati was his mother his
stepmother because his original mother
died seven days after he was born
and she arose into
when i said two seat to heaven i'm not
sure which one it was but his actual
mother
died within seven days of when he was
born and this happens to all buddhists
all buddhas are born in what is at that
time india
and they all go through the same path
now somebody
somebody was saying the next buddha
though this this buddha went through
seven years
of austerities
but the next buddha
i heard
from somebody that he'll only have to go
through seven days
so
he's going to have a a lot easier
after paying homage to him she sat down
at one side and said to the blessed one
then i will sir this new pair of cloths
has been spun by me
woven by me especially for the blessed
one
venerable sir let the blessed one accept
it from me out of compassion so she's
making a gift
when this was said the blessed one told
her give it to the sangha
gotami when you give it to the sangha
both i and the sangha will be honored
a second time and a third time she said
to the blessed one venerable sir
accept it from me out of compassion
a second time and a third time the
blessed one told her
give it to the sangha
when you give it to the sangha both i
and the sangha will be honored
then the venerable ananda said to the
blessed one venerable sir let the
blessed one accept the new pair of
cloths from
maha prajapati
gotami
maha pajapati gotami has been very
helpful to the blessed ones so ananda
thinks that it's being
rejected
has been
so mahapajapati gotami has been very
helpful to the blessed one venerable sir
as his mother's sister she was his nurse
his foster mother
the one who gave him milk
she suckled the blessed one when his own
mother died
the blessed one too
has been very helpful to maha pajapati
gotami venerable sir
it is owing to the blessed one
that maha pajapati gotami has gone for
refuge to the buddha
the dhamma and the sangha
it is owing to the blessed one that maha
pajapati gotami abstains from killing
living beings
from taking what is not given
from misconduct and sensual pleasures
from false speech and from wine liquor
and intoxicants
which are the basis of negligence
it is owing to the blessed one that maha
pajapati gotami
possesses unwavering confidence in the
buddha the dhamma and the sangha
and that she possesses the virtues loved
by the noble ones
it is owing to the blessed one that maha
pajapati is free from doubt about
suffering
about the origin of suffering
about the cessation of suffering
and about the way leading to the
cessation of suffering
the blessed one has been very helpful to
mahapa japati gotami
now i would say that little phrase there
meant that maybe she had some experience
of nibana
that is so so the buddha says that is so
ananda that is so
when one person owing to another has
gone for refuge to the buddha the dhamma
and the sangha i say that it is not easy
for the former to repay the latter by
paying homage to him
rising up for him
according him reverential salutation and
polite services and providing robes alms
food resting places and medicinal
requisites
when one person owing to another has
come to abstain from
killing living beings
from taking what is not given from
misconduct and sensual pleasures from
false speech and from wine liquor and
intoxicants
which are the basis of negligence
i say that is not easy for the former
to repay the latter by paying homage to
him
when one person owing to another has
come to possess unwavering confidence in
the buddha the dhamma and the sangha
and to possess the virtues loved by the
noble ones
i say that it is not easy for the former
to repay the latter by paying homage to
him
when one person owing to another has
become free from doubt
about suffering about the origin of
suffering about the cessation of
suffering
and about the way leading to the
cessation of suffering
i say it is not easy for the former to
repay the latter by paying homage to him
there are so
he's saying it's
it isn't easy
to repay all of the gifts that the
buddha has given her
and
this whole section here i'm not sure it
is really needed
so let's get into the
this
he's he's saying he he understands that
she can offer the gift of course but
he's taking this opportunity to talk
about giving about the benefits of
giving
and what giving is
there are fourteen kinds of personal
offerings of nanda
one gives a gift to a tatagata
accomplished and fully enlightened a
buddha
this is the first kind of personal
offering
one gives a gift to a pachaka buddha
this is the second kind of personal
offering
one gives a gift to an arhat disciple of
the tataugata
this is the third kind of personal
offering
one gives a gift to one who is entered
upon the way to the realization of the
fruit of our heartship this is the
fourth kind of personal offering
one gives a gift to a non-returner
this is the fifth kind of personal
offering
one gives a gift to one who is entered
upon the way to the realization of the
fruit of non-return
so what is
entered upon the way that's the path
knowledge
so there is path knowledge and fruition
knowledge for each
attainment so we're working down from a
buddha down down the line here
through all of the attainments
one gives a gift to one who is entered
upon the way to the realization of the
fruit of non-return this is the sixth
kind of personal offering
one gives a gift to a once returner this
is the seventh kind of personal offering
one gives a gift to one who is entered
upon the way to the realization of the
fruit of once returned
this is the eighth kind of personal
offering
one gives a gift to a stream enterer
this is the ninth kind of personal
offering
one gives a gift to one who's entered
upon the way to the realization of fruit
of the fruit of stream entry
this is the tenth kind of personal
offering
so these are offerings to people that
have attained nibana
from the highest down to the lowest
noble noble person
but jacob buddha is a buddha who has
decided to not teach
he's just he goes there's actually a
realm where a bunch of pacheco buddhas
hang out and just um
they're just there they just be with
each other
so
and you can have i think as delson said
last night
kind of like a pacheco arahat
who says okay i've realized everything
but
it's my decision to just go into the
forest and just enjoy my state of mind
here in ananda okay oops
okay so now we go outside one gives a
gift to one outside the dispensation who
is free from lust for sensual pleasures
this is the 11th kind of personal
offering one gives a gift to a virtuous
ordinary person
this is the 12th kind of personal
offering
one gives a gift to an immoral ordinary
person this is the 13th kind of personal
offering
one gives a gift to an animal
this is the fourth 14th kind of personal
offering
so again we've gone from a very virtuous
moral
ordinary person which you know could be
a priest it could be
you know it could be
somebody who's who believes following
morality is very good and that's what
they do but they they're not buddhist
they may be another religion
but they live their life in a virtuous
way
and all the way down to somebody who is
immoral
say perhaps a homeless person
who's just you know
doing some drugs or
alcohol and
steels and and that's an immoral person
down to an animal which is you know an
animal
however here in ananda by giving a gift
to an animal
the offering may be expected to be
repaid a hundred fold
by giving a gift to an immoral ordinary
person the offering may be expected to
be repaid a thousand-fold
by giving a gift to a virtuous ordinary
person
the offering may be expected to be
repaid a hundred thousand fold
by giving a gift to one outside the
dispensation who is free from loss for
sensual pleasures
the offering may be expected to
repay a hundred thousand times a hundred
thousand fold
so just giving what the buddha is saying
here is just giving a gift
feeding something to an animal
has a hundred fold return in terms of
the karmic results that will come back
to you
feeding something giving a gift to a
homeless person giving
some some food or some money or
something
to a homeless person holding this sign
out there
can return
a thousand-fold
and then giving a gift to just somebody
who lives their lives as an ordinary
person who's you know they'd have a job
and everything
you get up into the
hundred thousand fold
so
giving gifts is very powerful
it's not to be taken lightly
however doing immoral things can also
have opposite and
extreme results as well but let's talk
about
the good things here
so that's why i'm i'm i like to i mean
if if duke comes around or the cat i'm
giving him something to eat
and
i'm just preparing
my heavenly mansion
or just in case if i come back as duke's
brother
i'll get plenty to eat my next lifetime
who knows
we want to be prepared
you know
buddhism and religion and all these all
these things
we don't get involved with it because
so much of what it can do like today
although it can do a lot
we get involved because
we're trying to plan for our future
because we all have futures we have a
future in this lifetime
and if you believe it we have a future
in
future lifetimes
and those lifetimes
it's very important because some of
those lifetimes in in these other realms
can be extremely long
and so we want to be in the right one
so we should learn what it takes to get
into those
in the same way when you go to work
and they say are you planning for your
future
no i'm just getting my money in my
paycheck and you know get my new
mercedes and no you should save some
money so here we have a 401k plan
and you need to invest the money in
something that's reasonable now put it
in the in some stocks and bonds and
here's a good allocation sometimes
people come in to you know
seminars on what you should invest in
and what are you doing you're taking
care of yourself for the future this is
this is
uh very smart planning
so here we're taking care of ourselves
for the future as well
now your meditation practice practice is
going to benefit you in this very life
for sure
and also the giving in a way
but karmically gifts take a long time to
mature
one place i read that it took
a gift in this made in this lifetime had
almost no effect
in the next lifetime it had
it started to have a major effect
in the lifetime afterwards it had its
main fruit that would occur
so that's why when you give gifts
you don't see results quickly
matter of fact you could say well giving
doesn't lead to anything and have
doubt about whether it's giving is good
and of course that's why there's
ignorance and that's why
because people don't know they do things
and they don't see an immediate result
so they
well maybe this doesn't work but there's
many other gifts to giving
which we're going to get into not just
financial gain or you know getting stuff
there's definitely more things matter of
fact let's talk about some of those
there's this suto right here
okay
okay from the guter nikaya 5.256
this
what it says right here is that without
abandoning these five qualities
one is incapable of entering and
remaining in the first jhana
would you like to know what those are
so you can remain in the first jhana and
it says the first jhana the second john
the third jhana the fourth jonah
incapable of realizing the fruit of
stream entry
the fruit of non-returning the fruit of
so on up to our hot ship
so what would be those things
that would prevent you from
well number one is stinginess as to
one's monastery or lodgings
in other words stinginess
not sharing your house
your
say somebody wants to come and they
don't have a place to stay you say oh
come here's a place to stay
uh
stinginess as to one's family of
supporters
now this is one's family for a monka be
supporters
you might say
if somebody needs some help you say oh
this supporter over here knows all about
computers
go go talk to him about your computer
let me let me i'll put you in touch with
him so you help
people to
use your
resources
um
stinginess as to one's gains
well your gains
financial
giving away money
buying things buying people's people
meals
whatever you can to help people to
live their life better
one status
stinginess as to one's status
that's a little more sticky one's status
i suppose sharing the
the limelight if you will and not
preventing anybody from
getting their own
recognition
or giving good comments to people
and stinginess as to the dhamma
and not so that would mean of course not
sharing what you're learning here
when you share the dhamma
the dhamma is the best gift
when you share with somebody
how to make their life
more happy how to be free of depression
by using forgiveness meditation
and you see results that is a huge gift
so these are these are all gifts
but one of these is one's gains
and that's really what we're kind of
talking about here in the suta
hundred-fold thousand-fold this kind of
thing
so
that's and the dhammapada 223 it says
conquer stinginess with a gift
when somebody
when your neighbor gets upset at you
when you have a problem with
a relative a problem with somebody
give them a gift
just don't no don't make a big deal of
it but just give them something
when they see you coming first thing
they think is this person's no good
and then here you are you're giving them
something
they're going well i'm they're no good
but well okay yeah give me that
and
you got any more of that you know and
then pretty soon and maybe
so you break down that barrier
um of anger of hatred
so
giving breaks down a lot of barriers
what are the rewards of generosity
these are the this is from the angutra
number uh
5.35 lots of good stuff in the fives
there are the five rewards of generosity
one is dear and appealing to people at
large
one is admired by good people
one's good name is spread about
one does not stay stray from rightful
duties of the householder
and with the breakup of the body at
death one reappears in a good
destination
in a heavenly world
so um one is dear and appealing to
people at large
when you give
and you share
word gets around
for sure
um
when you're evil and no good word gets
around
so when you're generous word gets around
and so when people see you and they go
this person's okay you know we we know
about him
one is admired by good people
so the good people know that you're
doing good and they are
at they're admiring of that
people who may be stingy themselves may
think oh that person's just trying to
make a good name and he's he's just
trying to show off and that's envy and
that's jealousy you should be
celebrating that person's
good fortune
um one's good name is spread about one
does not stray from the rightful duties
of the householder
okay i'm not sure about how that works
but then with the breakup of the body of
death one reappears in a heavenly
destination
the way the buddha taught the dhamma
was he would talk about morality and
precepts first
and
following these five precepts which
you've heard many times
and that makes the mind quiet tranquil
there's no guilt there's no remorse
and then he would talk about the
benefits of generosity
and people would start to think about
how they could get some of those
benefits
and their minds would become uplifted
because they'd think oh well i could do
those things and think of all those
great benefits that i would obtain
and they'd start to think you know and
start to be
kind of happy thinking about what they
could become in the future if they did
the right thing
and once the buddha saw that their mind
was uplifted he would then teach them
the dhamma
because it's like
when you obtain a you enter a jhana your
mind is uplifted
and then you're
then you see things and everything
unfolds
but just normally
talking to somebody he would go through
this process in a talk you can see it if
you find some talks like that
you would talk about the benefits the
heavenly worlds and then he would go
into
the dhamma and
and not be his his
point was not to
um
get people to heaven
because once you get to heaven
you can come back from heaven and
there's 31 realms of existence and
there's all these different places
but your karma will only last so long so
the buddha is trying to get you off the
complete wheel of existence
so he's not going to stop with heaven
he's going to say okay now let me teach
you the dhamma which will get you off
this
wheel of existence
in
the next one if beans knew as i know
the results of giving and sharing
they would not eat without having given
nor would this the stain of miserliness
overcome their minds
even if it were their last bite their
last mouthful
they would not eat without having shared
if there was someone to if there were
someone to receive their gift
but because beings do not know as i know
the results of giving
and the results of
oh yeah
of giving and exertion
should be they should be made to
understand this is the way leading to
the cessation of suffering
the stain of miserliness overcomes their
minds
okay that's out of order
i think you get the point though
um
that's why if you can share every single
meal if you can buy everybody's meal if
you can
give give give
um
this is this is all going to come back
and help you
but what else does it do
it actually
makes your mind
less sticky
because your mind is going that's my
money
and i'm not giving it away maybe
somebody else will pay oh that'd be
great
and i'm definitely not going to tip them
very much because i don't like that
waiter you know
whatever
i'll give them
a dollar or something like that because
i got to keep i got to hang on to this
money it's mine i made it
so when you start to let go of things
like that you pay for somebody else's
meal
now it's it it opens your mind it
relaxes the mind
it makes the when you give something it
makes you happy
there's a there's a sense of
uh joy coming from that
and so
it doesn't you know just one gift is not
gonna
make a huge difference but if you do
this every day
your mind completely opens up like this
these flowers
and you're just giving giving nothing
you don't own anything anymore even
though it's your money maybe it's your
k
but you say well you need some money let
me hear
you need a new something i'll buy it
delson lived with the guy
greg halpern
and he loved he said he told story he'd
love to go to the bank with this guy
because he'd go to the bank go to the
atm or guy well at the atm go inside
and get a bunch of cash
and he'd go out and delson would be
waiting in the car he says here's a
thousand bucks uh you know have fun and
tell somebody
a thousand dollars
you know the guy the guy was just a
master of givings just giving things to
everybody so
everybody loved him
i wonder why
people love to be around him
but he also lived in an 8 000 square
foot house
in
rancho
verde it was no what was it anyway in
san diego
very expensive place but his nature was
to just give give give
and so you could see the results of that
even here and now
another uh interesting part of giving
is that you see people say up in
power
they end up in country club jails
now one of the problems with getting
money is abusing it
now somebody may have done something
good in the past in another life or in
this life or whenever
and
their business has flourished and now
they have millions of dollars
but they don't have any morality they
don't have any restraint
and so they use this money
that they may um
they may feel a lot of power
they may want more money
they may want to
embezzle money from the company
they want um
so okay let me set this up a little
better so somebody has gotten into a
high place of power
and they have lots of money but they
want more
and so they realize that since they're
the treasurer they can go and reach in
and just take some more money for
themselves
so then they get caught
but this person has a lot of merit from
the past
they go to they get caught they get
convicted
they go to a country club
jail you know they they have everything
they need is sir what can i get you you
know and they've got all their friends
in there and
and they've got plenty of food and they
they have still have a lot of money so
they're paying off everybody and so
they're having a great time in jail
now somebody else gets caught doing this
with no merit
they go and get thrown in the hole and
they get nothing
and so they're so
so when you see people
who've done some pretty bad things
but you know you know that
there are people of power and they have
a lot of money and they have a lot of
um
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you know whatever
and they don't get the book thrown at
them
this could be because of their merit is
mitigating this damage that they're
doing
it's putting it off
but don't worry it will catch up
they will see the result of their bad
actions at some point maybe it's not
this lifetime maybe it's a future
lifetime well it will definitely be a
future lifetime
but these things take a long time to
mature
so let me get back to the suta
so we just talked about the
how many thousand folds
these gifts
can go to
all right so
so we were at the
by giving a gift to one outside of the
dispensation who is free from lust for
central pleasures
the offering may be expected to repay a
hundred thousand times a hundred
thousand fold it's a hundred thousand
times a hundred thousand
by giving a gift to one who is entered
upon the way to the realization of the
fruit of stream entry
this is attaining the first the past
knowledge
the offering may be expected to be
repaid
incalculably immeasurably
what then should be said about giving a
gift to a stream enterer this is
somebody who's got the fruition of
stream entry
what should said
what should be said about giving a gift
to one who's entered upon the way to the
realization of the fruit of once
returner
to a want to or the fruit of once return
to a once returner to one who is entered
upon the way to the realization of the
fruit of non-return
to a non-returner to one who has entered
upon the way to the realization of the
fruit of our hot ship
to an arhat
to a pacheco buddha
what should be said about giving a gift
to a tatagata
accomplished and fully enlightened
there are seven kinds of offerings made
to the sangha ananda
one gives a gift to a sangha of both
bhikkhus and bhakunis headed by the
buddha
this is the first kind of offering made
to the sangha
one gives a gift to a sangha of both
bhikkhus and bikunis after the tatakata
has attained final nibana
so this is the full sangha the buddha
the bhikkhus and the pakuni
and now the second one the buddha is out
of the picture now but now we have still
the complete sangha
one gives a gift to a sangha of bhikkhus
this is the third kind of offering made
to asanga so just the bickers one gives
a gift to a sangha of bhakunis this is
the fourth kind of offering made to the
sangha
one gives a gift saying appoint so many
bhikkhus and bakunis for me from the
sangha
this is the fifth kind of offering made
to the sangha so you're giving to a
group of
say monks in a room or something
appoint so many bakunis for me from the
sangha
appoint so many bhikkhus
this is the seventh kind of offering
in future times ananda there will be
members of the clan who are yellow necks
immoral persons for the sake of the
sangha
even then i say an offering made to the
sangha is incalculable immeasurable
and i say that in no way is a gift to a
person individually
ever more fruitful fruitful than
offering made to the sangha
so what does that mean so when you give
a gift
to a monk
that monk
is a
representative of the entire buddhist
sangha
so in your mind when you give a gift to
a monk don't think you're just giving a
gift to this monk
you're giving a gift
to the buddha or to the entire sangha
with the buddha at its head do this put
do this in your mind when you're giving
gifts to sangha members like this
they're just the representative or who
are here to take your gift for the
entire sangha
because
bikers and and nuns they share they
share everything so a gift to one of
them just is a gift to all because they
share everything
so don't make it a personal gift like
bhanti would always say
i'm accepting these gifts but you're
giving them to the sangha
there are ananda four kinds of
purification of offering
what for there is the offering that is
purified by the giver
not by the receiver there is the
offering that is purified by the
receiver not by the giver
there is
the offering that is purified neither by
the giver nor by the receiver
there is the offering that is purified
both by the giver and by the receiver
receiver
and how is the offering purified by the
giver not by the receiver
here the giver is virtuous
of good character and the receiver is
immoral of evil character
thus the offering is purified by the
giver not by the receiver
how is the offering purified by the
receiver
not by the giver
here the giver is immoral of evil
character
and the receiver is virtuous of good
character
thus the offering is purified by the
receiver and not by the giver so what
we're talking about here is the power of
the gift
or the merit that one would accrue
is purified by the person offering
and also by the person receiving
so there was a story about
sorry putta
and the king had an executioner and this
this executioner chopped off heads at
the king's whim
if he didn't like somebody the
king chopped the head off and the
executioner took care of it
well this executioner
we had a lot of bad merit let's just say
this guy
he was not going to a happy place
and what happened was sorry puta went
was on alms around one day
and the executioner saw him and he had
some rice
and he thought oh that look at that monk
that monk is so perfect and tranquil
let me go give him some rice
and so he gave him what his own meal
which was very just a small bit of rice
and the result of that gift was said to
push aside all of his evil karma and
throw him up into the heavenly
to a tawa team to heaven
for some millennia of time
because why he his he was not purified
he was not pure
but his receiver was very pure
so that's the power of who you're giving
it to
if you're giving it to a dog that's not
a real moral person
and thus a hundredfold
but if you're giving it to a very pure
person
that comes back to you
but if you're the buddha and you gave
something to sargputa
well that's the that's like the most
powerful gift because you have two pure
people but of course their gifts they're
not coming back so it doesn't really
matter in that case
and how is the offering purified by the
receiver not by the giver
here the giver is immoral of evil
character and the receiver is virtuous
of good character
thus the offering is purified by the
receiver not by the giver
and how is the offering purified neither
by the giver
nor by the receiver
here the giver is immoral of evil
character
and the receiver is immoral of evil
character thus the offering is purified
neither by the giver nor by the receiver
so two immoral people just giving a gift
it's not going to be of of great merit
but of course it will be of some merit
and how
how is the offering purified by both the
giver and by the receiver
here the giver is virtuous of good
character
and the receiver is virtuous of good
character
thus the offering is purified both by
the giver and by the receiver these are
the four kinds of purification of
offering
so that the types of people who you're
giving it to you if you're giving it to
the whole sangha
that's made up of
all of these pure
hopefully pure beings
with the buddha at its head
and if you're giving a gift to just the
dog well that's not so moral so that's
but if you're
pure
then
this gift that you make is actually
has more merit
not sure how that works exactly but
that's what it says here so
uh
yeah
so that's
okay so this is what the blessed one
said when the sublime one had said that
the teacher said further
when a virtuous person to an immoral
person gives with trusting heart
a gift righteously obtained
in other words you don't want to give
something you've stolen
with trusting placing faith that the
fruit of action is great
the giver's virtue purifies the offer
offering
so
placing faith that the fruit of action
is great
this means that it's okay to think
that the
the fact that you're giving will result
in
good
in a good karmic effect it's okay to
give something with the idea that this
is beneficial to you
now it would be perfect if you just gave
things that you didn't even think about
it
but we all got to start somewhere here
you know we're not perfect yet
so if we have a little greedy mind of
well if i give this gift to that monk
i'll get a lot back
hey you know
fine
because if you don't give it
you've accomplished absolutely nothing
and and there's
i've read few times where people say
well i'm not going to give because i'm
giving out of a greedy mind
and i just can't get over that
so they don't give anything
so what is karma
karma is action
if you don't do any action you get no
result
so
give the gift if in doubt well i'm not
sure if
just do it just do it let go let go
because giving is letting go giving
letting go part of the six hours
release
relax
re-smile gift makes you happy
when an immoral person to a virtuous
person gives with untrusting heart
a gift is unrighteously obtained
let's see when an immoral person to a
virtuous person gives with untrusting
heart
a gift unrighteously obtained
nor places
faith that the fruit of action is great
the receiver's virtue purifies that
offering
so if the receiver is pure
all of the doubt
of the immoral person is purified the
gift is
made of great benefit when an immoral
person to an immoral person gives with
untrusting heart a gift unrighteously
obtained
nor places faith that the fruit of
action is great they don't believe in
karma they don't believe in any of that
funny stuff about life after death
neither's
virtue purifies the offering
so it has
not very much effect
they don't have right view
and right view is is
thinking that every action that you do
has benefit
if you do an action there's going to be
a result
and it may not be just in this lifetime
there may be results in future lifetimes
as dalson was saying one of the views
is that
your actions whatever you do you can go
steal things you'll have no results from
that at all other than you you have all
this money from the bank and
it's yours and nothing will happen
well of course we know that you know you
could be caught and thrown in jail is
just one thing
not to speak of anything in future lives
but in any case so if you have one thief
giving some money to another thief
it's probably not the greatest
outcome
when a passionless person to a
passionless person gives with trusting
heart a gift righteously obtained
placing faith that the fruit of action
is great
that gift i say is the best of worldly
gifts
that's pretty arahat to araha stream
enter the stream enter
somebody who's just following the five
precepts
that's a very virtuous person
that person
is very rare in the world
almost nobody follows five precepts they
don't even know what they are
now many people follow morality
because maybe they're religious and they
they have rules i mean the ten
commandments
tells you what morality is and
many people follow those rules and good
for them
but maybe they don't follow everything
that's in these precepts like you know
maybe they're drinking alcohol and
intoxicants
so there's
but they're not they don't know that
they're following or not following rules
they're doing the best they can
but a person who knows the precepts like
you guys do
and you know that you're following them
you are very rare in the world
and so you're of great merit to other
people because you you are doing
something that's
very unusual
for the human world
that's the end of that suta i have a few
other little trinkets here
let's see
so i learned about giving through
the
buddhist publication society in kandy
so when i was 19
i got very interested in buddhism i did
a vipassana retreat
like after the first year of college
and just thought buddhism was really
interesting and so i wanted to read
everything i could
and the only places to get anything
were to
send
send money to
sri lanka
and they had a buddhist library there
and you get these little little
pamphlets and things and so they'd have
all kinds of things and and i would buy
all these things and
you know they'd be like 50 cents for
this one and a dollar for this one but
i'd read all of these things and this is
kind of the way that i
learned about giving because i didn't
know anything about it it's certainly
not taught in the west
it's taught to
giving is good but that's about the
extent of it it it's not taught that it
has
benefits in the future
but so i learned all these things and i
and i you know i wasn't i didn't feel
great you know i i had my ups and downs
and
one time i thought you know because i'm
starting to do some retreats but they
didn't really talk about
morality very much they wanted to stay
away from because it's you know we don't
want to be moral and
you know somehow
that was bad
it was being attached to being moral
you know like on the retreat on the
retreat they'd say okay i want you to
follow these precepts but after the
retreat you know you just just go go
back to what you're doing it's this is
just for the retreat
and so we would you know you know back
to
whatever intoxicant
floated your boat
and
anything else buying well it didn't
matter but on retreat it mattered
but they only said those those precepts
once for the whole retreat
and that was the end of it you didn't
hear very much about it because they
didn't want to
you know knock you over the head with it
they wanted you to just
just understand it but so
i started um like i don't know something
would go wrong at work so i'd be kind of
in a bad mood
and so i thought well i'll just i'll
just give a gift
i'll just write a check
and i wrote ten dollar checks
to meditation centers
and i'd send that check out and i'd feel
better for a little bit
and
pretty soon ten dollar checks got to be
bigger checks and i started to to do
better at work
and
and pretty soon i was you know buying
people's meals and i hung out with a lot
of meditation type people
in california and uh we'd talk about
this and it would just kind of feed on
itself and
you know the benefits of giving
so i was buying everybody's meals and
things are really improving quite a bit
getting along with people at work you
know
wasn't really you know
as much down as there was
so there's a real benefit to
sharing because you're not thinking
about yourself anymore when you give a
gift to somebody else you're not
thinking about yourself
so i did that and
you know continued
and eventually i gave gifts to damasuka
and
you know i put a bunch of money into the
dining hall
i bought this cabin down there you'll
see my name on it i said don't put my
name on it but anyway he put my name on
it
and so i have to look at it every time
it's like
and i bought this cab this old cabin
over that was one of the first cabins i
bought that cabin
and then pretty soon um i got invited to
come to damsuka
and i bought my own cabin and i had you
know at that at that point
my stock options had worked out
it was funny i got stock options at this
company
and almost nobody else that had gotten
the options it worked out for them
somehow they they had in their mind that
they wanted to
not cash them in until you know years in
the future
i thought no i i want to get out of
working
so i cash mine in
and later on company laid off all these
people
because one of the inevitable silicon
valley slumps occurred
and i was
in india at that point you know on my
journeys because i i was fine i was
doing really great
but these people got laid off and they
got and they never got benefit of their
options
and it was just so strange because we
were a company that got caught up got
bought out
and there were like 20 of us
and uh i think i was one of the only
ones i mean we were all you know doing
pretty good here if we cashed out and i
did
but nobody else did so it was just the
strangest thing so i have to believe
that somehow the karmic effects were
come starting to come to be there
and that it was benefiting me
i don't know
so now i live and i don't really need
any money every time i need money i i
just it's somebody else pays the bill i
can't even pay the bill anymore
i go to lunches op no
oh i want to pay the bill
then a ball a boss is the one paying the
bill i can't ever pay the bill she says
i want that bill
okay i'm giving you the bill to pay
that's my gift
so otherwise i just pay the bill but now
she takes it all the time
you have to give somebody else a chance
to pay the bill i'm sure you will
i know you do
she has more merit than anybody in this
room
believe me
let's see
when i grew up uh my parents gave money
every month to the church they tied all
the time um
we went to church we put money in the
offering
i was never really taught about it but
that's something that we did and i grew
up in a you know
pretty good welted well not well to do
moderately middle class things were fine
we never had a problem with money
um
but my my parents did the right thing
you know they gave to the church they
they helped people out they were down at
charities and
thanksgiving
uh they're out
with the church you know handing out
free turkeys and i got involved with all
those things when i went home for
thanksgiving oh you're going to be
delivering turkeys this year
oh okay yeah that's different
turkeys all right let's let's do that
and i had i got to deliver some turkeys
to some very
very poor people that were out there who
really needed food and some of it was
you go into some of these houses
there it's shocking the way that people
live
i mean one place was
i mean i wanted to report them to the
police i mean they had
three kids running around in diapers and
there was stuff junk just piled up
everywhere it's like one of these dr
phil shows you know with
hoarders
and it was it was a bad situation and i
said i told the church and they said
just let that go
okay okay
so what did the buddha say about
how to spend your money
um
there is a suta where he talks about
how to
the the money that you get from your job
and that and it has to be getting the
money in a uh honest decent way
with this the sweat of the brow
the strain the work
that you you make to get the money
honestly
you divvy that money up
fifty percent for living expenses
so half
you can just create a budget you say
okay i'm gonna spend 50 percent
for living expenses
you
you take another 25
and you save it
save it for a rainy day
or tropical storm in india
and then 25
is for giving and for enjoyment of your
life
so these are the buddha's instructions
and i never followed any of that
what i did is you know i ate one dollar
mac cheeseburgers
and tried to
save money so i was more saving money
all the time
and i never
spent it to enjoy i was more stingy to
myself
and
but i was very much hoarding money to
save it
and
i'd get the cheapest you know
my dinners and things i'd be whatever
the cheapest thing was
and so i started thinking about this and
i said wow i really treat myself poorly
and i'm treating other people really
well but i treat myself lousy
so i just started to spend some more
money on myself because it says spend
money on yourself it's okay it's okay
because you're just as valuable as
anybody else why not
and fifty percent for living expenses
try you don't need to live in your car
you can get a nice house a nice whatever
i mean if you're of course if you're
making enough money
spend that money um and don't put you
know 80 to saving
in some people's case 80 to spending and
no saving and not spending any money on
your house
so it's just about balancing
how you your you live your life with
with what money that you have coming in
and give every month
give something every month to some
somebody
you know a a a charitable organization
of some sort the sangha
this this will
it works on your mind
you know i'm i'm the you know quote
treasurer of damasuka
and when i see somebody come in on
retreat i know what their financial
situation is and what you know there are
people that give money every month
and i'll i'll i
i told delson one time i said that
person's gonna have an experience
why do you
they give every month
it's going to happen
okay
they did
because their mind is letting go all the
time
they don't necessarily think about it
but it's operating in their mind that
letting go
because so the air you know
whatever you get a piece of it is let go
every month and it's not all yours
so your your cost it's like the
government's taking taxes but it's
actually you giving it away
um the last thing on
this page here though is about the
genius of the buddha
you heard about the merit of giving
gifts to the sangha
well the buddha set up
the monks and nuns
would live based on the support of lay
people in the villages
if they did not
people the monks would probably just go
off into the forest and go and meditate
and they'd just never have anything to
do with villagers
so the buddha said no you cannot have
food you cannot make food you must
go for alms around and collect food from
the villagers
why is this
because then the monks come and the
villagers get the opportunity to hear
the teachings of the dhamma
every time the monk comes because many
times a monk would go to a house
take food in that house and after the
meal give a dhamma talk to the person
who gave the gift
but the buddha was also very sneaky
because when the monks went out for alms
around
uh the laypeople are giving gifts to the
entire sangha if they know how to do it
they're giving gifts to the sangha
and these gifts are highly meritorious
and and uh benefit them tremendously
so the buddha was giving the laypeople a
big gift
and he was taking care of all of the
requisites for the monks
so this dependency really works out well
and it just struck me the other night
that
these lay people think well they're just
giving food and it's very nice
but many of them don't understand how
powerful that that is for them
of course we don't know any of this you
know i'm
not psychic i don't know if any of this
will make out work out in in terms of
but i do know that giving
helps the mind and it and it relaxes the
mind and it and it makes your meditation
better because you've released
um
this stinginess this this
you you let things go
okay i'll just finish with one or two
here
yeah one note is you know what's the
happiest time of the year
christmas what are we doing giving
don't doesn't everybody want to have
christmas like every day
just so long as we
our budgets might be a little limited
there but
christmas day of giving
okay one more
okay
okay this is uh i'm not sure where this
is from but this was said by the blessed
one said by the arhat so i have heard
monks don't be afraid of acts of merit
this is a cinnamon for what synonym for
what is blissful desirable
pleasing endearing charming that is acts
of merit
i directly know that
having long performed meritorious deeds
and this is the buddha as the
bodhisattva for
four maha kappas and 100 000 lifetimes
that's how many lifetimes the buddha
went around the
the round of existence to become a
buddha to work on themselves
i have long experienced desirable
pleasing endearing charming results
having developed a mind of good will for
seven years
then for seven eons of contraction and
expansion
i didn't return to this world
whenever the eon was contracting i
entered the realm of radiance
whatever the eon whenever the eon was
expanding i reappeared in an empty
brahma abode
there i was brahma
the great brahma
the unconquered conqueror
total seer
wielder of power
then for 36 times i was sakka
ruler of the gods
for many hundreds of times i was a king
a wheel-turning emperor a righteous king
of dhamma
conqueror of the four corners of the
earth maintaining stable control over
the countryside endowed with the seven
treasures
to say nothing of the times i was a
local king
the thought occurred to me
of what action of mine is this the fruit
of what action the result
that i now have such great power and
might
then the thought occurred to me this is
the fruit of my three types of action
the result of three types of action
that i now have such great power and
might
generosity
self-control and restraint
and the verse is training acts of merit
that yield the foremost prophet of bliss
develop generosity
a life in tune a mind of good will
developing these three things that bring
about bliss
the wise reappear in a world of bliss on
a lloyd
and here endeth
the talk on giving
so give and then give again
and then give more after that
in regards
if you give if you support your family
members
of course
no no it can anybody
anybody give a little piece of food to
the cat that's giving
yeah
um
it's nice
it's fun it's
comes to giving uplifting oftentimes we
think that giving is solely like
monetary yeah but you can also give your
time
you can give meta
yeah which you know it's hard to feel
sometimes
but
you can also um just like give someone a
smile or a compliment
yeah
i i think our like our western culture
is set up so that like it feels like the
only way to give is through
money and i mean it does help
but giving your time is also helpful and
um yeah but then i also think that like
you can give too much and i've seen that
so like the line of work that i do i see
a lot of people
who give way too much of like their
energy and their time
um i used to work as an outreach worker
for homeless people around the homeless
population and
like seeing all the seeing like how much
they suffer i felt like i needed
and so i had to like remove myself from
the situation and just say that i can
only give so much and i'm not here to
like fix
the world's problems um
especially like as a woman i feel like
we're taught to like always be like very
nurturing
of ourselves
and so it was important for me like you
said to
well i think that's that's where you
want to be giving of compassion
and what does compassion mean it means
you know that they're suffering
and you'll do anything you can to help
but
not to hurt yourself
you can't help everybody
but you can understand have the empathy
of
you understand their suffering
and instead of just blowing it off like
you're some you know uh robot
nurse or something like this and just
you know
you understand these people are
suffering but you don't be you don't get
involved with it
that's true
you don't give them alcohol
well okay yeah right as a medicine for
just a little bit yeah yeah yeah yeah i
can see that um
i know i know
i know
oh you're giving them bad habits and
they're making yeah well when they're
really bad they just go out we just take
food outside and leave them out there
but i i noticed it i had a dog they said
don't feed that dog at the table
i like feeding the dog well don't do it
because then he'll come back
so what i like the dog you know it's
okay
oh that dog's dirty
yeah
yeah people just don't
they don't like you know these oh that's
an animal i don't
no it's it's my friend
you know
so i'm treating my friends just like i
do
anybody else so
all right
let's share some merit
may suffering ones be suffering free and
the fear struck fearless be
may the grieving shed all grief and may
all beings find relief
may all beings share this merit that we
have thus acquired for the acquisition
of all kinds of happiness
may beings inhabiting space and earth
davis and nagas of mighty power share
this merit of ours may they long protect
the buddhist dispensation
saudi saudi
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