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Context: Throughout this transcript, Bhante Vimalaramsi is the speaker unless otherwise indicated.
hi i'm mehta nanda a salmonera monk here
at damasuke meditation center
and today i'm lucky to be joined by
delson armstrong who's a friend a
meditation teacher
he's leading retreats all around the
world and a very experienced yogi and
meditator
he's actually been collaborating with
elite neuroscience labs
all over the world in amsterdam and soon
in harvard at harvard and
he's um
actually in in this episode we'll have a
cool visual demonstration
of delson's brain waves using the muse
which is the consumer
eeg which basically is a headband
as
you'll see soon that can measure
delson's brain while he meditates
and most recently delson is the author
of a book called titled a mind without
craving
so delson welcome to the welcome to the
show thanks for being here thanks for
having me good to be here
so i think that'll be a good place to
start with the title of your book a mind
without craving
what does that mean
yeah mind without cravings so when we
talk about a mind without craving
what we're saying is it's a mind that's
happy all the time
and the reason i say that is because if
you look at it from the context of the
practice that we do here
we're looking at it from what's known as
the four noble truths which is suffering
the cause of suffering the
cessation of suffering and the way
leading to the cessation of suffering
and a mind without craving is the third
noble truth which is the cessation of
any kind of suffering which means you
cease the craving
and when we talk about craving craving
is basically that mind that grasps at
something
from a sense of self
it says i like it or i don't like it or
i am it
and it manifests as tightness and
tension in the head
and in the body
so a mind without craving is basically a
mind that has no mental suffering at all
it will still feel pain it will still
feel bodily pain it will still feel
bodily discomfort
it'll still have unpleasant feelings
but there won't be any mental agitation
because of it
so there won't be any grasping there
won't be any kind of reactivity to it
and so that mind without craving is
basically a mind
that is relaxed all the time that has
relief all the time and is happy all the
time
beautiful i mean this sounds like
something that
we would all want and uh i think it's
kind of radical what you're saying
because
most people don't realize that's even a
possibility i mean it's just kind of
accepted that part of the human
condition is that there's this perpetual
cycle of kind of dissatisfaction and
then striving to get something in the
future that might make us happy
experiencing some joy here and there but
really
looking for things a lot of the time and
the meditation traditions
have
traditionally this big promise that you
can have a mind without suffering
but i don't think a lot of people even
realize that's possible
so how did this come about for you if
you're able to just kind of
walk us through like
the last kind of cognitive shifts that
occurred for you
when doing the meditation practice
right so first we should understand that
when we talk about this meditation
practice what really differentiates it
from other meditative practices
the majority of meditation practices
is that there is what's known as
the relaxed step so the way to apply the
meditation
is basically observing
an object of meditation
and you remain collected in that object
of meditation
when your mind gets distracted when your
mind moves away from it you use the six
hours and at the heart of that is what's
known as relax
so very briefly put the six hours is
recognizing when you got distracted
releasing attention from it relaxing any
tightness and tension that's the craving
or agitation
coming back to a smile to uplift the
mind and returning back to your objects
yeah and the six is repeat
so that was the application of effort
that i did so it was very relaxed very
open very spacious in terms of the
mindset and the awareness
because of that my mind was able to
actually get really deep into the
practice
and in a very relaxed manner
there comes a point in the meditation
for everyone where there is a really
uh
wonderful joyful cognitive shift that
happens
and this happens when the mind first
completely shuts off as war there's no
consciousness there there's no awareness
there
and when it comes back online there is
this rush
of joy and relief that is experienced
and as a result when you come out of the
meditation and you look around you
everything seems very hyper vivid
it's everything is much cleaner as it
were there's no impediments
you know before you see a tree and yeah
you see it's a tree that's great but
after this cognitive shift you look at
the tree and you actually see each and
every detail of the leaf of that tree
and the bark of that tree or each blade
of grass
or each curvature of clouds in the sky
you know it's very hyper
detailed
and the way i look at that the way i
understand it is that the mind in that
in that time has let go a lot of craving
let go of a lot of suffering
so there's no more of this filtration
system or the filter as it were has been
cleaned up
yeah so you can see reality as it
actually is
amazing so
um
you know the
the way you describe this in your book i
think is pretty beautiful
you say the mind of an arhat which is
someone who's fully awakened
is completely free from all concepts
when he or she experiences reality as it
is through the sixth sense basis so this
is the five senses and then also the
mind
consciousness feeling and perception all
these processes are completely empty
completely void they're empty of any
conceit of i me or mine when an arhat
experiences reality there is no
conceptual proliferation that arises
from any perception that arises it is
being experienced in that moment through
the sense and the sense faculties
their consciousness the awareness is
still functional but it is void of any
sense of self
so this no self experience
or not self experience is
also commonly talked about in different
meditation traditions
but i think it's a very confusing one
for people because they just look down
at their body and they think it's pretty
obvious that there's a self here
so
what is that actually mean
experientially to not feel like anything
is self
yeah
so when we talk about self and not self
or no self but it's really not self
which is you understand that everything
is just empty of any kind of
personal self
you realize that everything is a process
or a series of processes that are just
causes and conditions to bring about
that
experience here for someone who becomes
fully awakened
they experience the world in such a way
that there is no more as it's written
there conceptual proliferation
or mental proliferation
so we could take the example of a
chocolate cake
right somebody somebody who's not fully
awakened or not awakened at all looks at
chocolate cake and there can be all of
these ideas around that chocolate cake
like you know my mother used to bake me
this kind of chocolate cake or i
remember having this chocolate cake at
this particular restaurant or bakery
or you know i wonder how many calories
are in a slice of chocolate cake or i
wonder what kind of chocolate is used in
that kind of chocolate cake all of these
different ideas you know and this is
this is the process of the default mode
network
so on an experiential level for the for
the awakened mind they just see
chocolate cake
now their mind you know they're they're
they might be habituated towards
enjoying chocolate cake but
you take away the chocolate cake from
them
and they won't get affected by it one
way or the other but to know if a mind
is filled with craving is oh they dig
into the chocolate cake you snatch it
away from them and look at their
reaction yeah they will feel agitated by
it
so coming through that idea of craving
you know we talk about it in terms of
you know this agitation as well the mind
that tightens up over something around
something
and then you look at that object of
craving and then you
you know you take that and you enjoy it
and then you feel relief
but that mind without any craving that
mind of the arahant is basically in
relief all the time relaxed all the time
so they don't need anything
to make them happy as it were right
their mind is always happy
it's a it's it's independent it's
liberated from
the need or desire to enjoy something
the need or desire to
have another object that that will
create happiness
internally they are filled with joy
internally they are filled with
relief internally they are filled with
equanimity
so there's no conceptual proliferation
going on when you see things as they are
what it's saying is
in the seeing you're only seeing it as
it is
there is this filtration system which is
you know filtered by the craving
filtered by
what's in it for me
how does this benefit me
or what can i get out of this
all of that is based in conceit
and for the fully awakened mind they
don't see it in that way they don't have
an agenda
so they can fully enjoy things as they
are
without having to add a layer or
superimpose a layer of a sense of
personal self right
yeah so
i mean this is
i think intuitive for a lot of people
what you're saying the sense that
we're
always
seeking for happiness out there looking
for things to satisfy us and we do this
all day long we do it on a micro level
whether it's just adjusting the position
in our chair to get away from something
that's unpleasant or moving towards and
wanting more of something that's
pleasant like the chocolate cake
and we do it on a macro level which is
seeking the new
house the new job the new partner
that we think will
finally make everything okay in our life
we'll finally be happy and that might be
true for some time but then the mind
just wants more of whatever it is that's
pleasant or wants to get rid of
unpleasant things people we don't like
situations we don't like
and so what you're describing this mind
without craving this awakened mind is
really a mind that's content no matter
what's going on is that right yes
yeah exactly it's content all the time
now you know we have to differentiate
between let's say bodily pain and mental
pain
so in the case of somebody who's not
fully awakened they will still have
mental pain we talk about this in the
form of the two arrows
or the two darts somebody feels pain
that's just a bodily pain
but then they add to it some kind of
agitation and that's where the
reactivity and trouble starts
but for the awakened mind there's only
the bodily pain so they will still feel
pain they will still feel
some kind of discomfort
right but there's no sense of
anger or irritation or
sadness or grief associated with that
pain
likewise
you know or on the flip side of that if
it's a pleasant feeling
they won't like grasp around it
so i would venture to say
that for the fully awakened mind
they don't have any sort of
you know
i would think that their dopamine and
serotonin levels are completely balanced
yeah in that sense they're not like
always looking for the next fix right as
it were right
yeah i mean so
the way this works with the chocolate
cake example for example is
when someone has already experienced
chocolate cake when they just at the
mere sight of it again their dopamine
reward system is going to start going
create this uncomfortable
urge to go get some chocolate cake to
satisfy that kind of agitated feeling
the cake will taste good but it's really
the relief that comes from finally
feeling like okay
that
agitation is gone
and it sounds like in the awakened mind
that no longer happens
um and it also sounds like the
pro you've mentioned proliferation where
we're just
constantly layering on
layers of abstraction from raw data in
the world so like we look at something
but we don't see it as it is we see
all of our memories of it and how it can
benefit us in one way or another and
what we expect it to be and how we want
more of it or less of it or you know
even like extreme emotions towards it
um instead of just like the color and
form that's there in our awareness yes
yes and so even the awakened mind will
have perception which is to say they
will have memory
of uh you know this is uh
you know this is a person that i know
from from
my friendship or from my childhood or
whatever it might be
but that's where the layer of
experience stops beyond that there's no
like grudge being held against them or
there's no like oh this person did this
to me or did that to me
you know we take a look at this for
example this pen
right
this pen for us
as humans is a writing instrument
for a dog it would be a chew toy yeah so
you know it's you will still perceive it
as it actually is you'll still say okay
this is a pen
but beyond that it won't say oh this is
a specific type of pen which i only like
yeah or my father gave me this pen so it
has some kind of emotional value to it
right so those kinds of projections are
gone and they wake in mind right so
you're not gonna cry and wail when the
you know you lose the pen but you're
also not going to start
chewing on it
[Laughter]
so that's good that's reassuring
so
all right this is kind of a i don't know
a spicy question but would someone
rather be a fully
healthy happy
celebrity because i a lot of celebrities
aren't happy but at least people think
think they are so let's pick a celebrity
who
you know
actually is pretty happy and they've
just they've got everything they they
want materially they've got the you know
the attractive partner and all that
for 100 years
or in the awakened mind for a single day
[Laughter]
i think that's a no-brainer
because you think about having a fully
awakened mind you know we talk about a
celebrity right let's say we talk about
a celebrity who's
extremely healthy
seems to be happy
but you know fame is what defines a
celebrity which means that there's
somebody who's well-known somebody who's
celebrated in society
but for what reason because they're
idolized for some kind of ideal that
they represent
whether they're coming from the movies
and they so personify a specific type of
character
or music you know or they they
they are celebrated as
somebody who is an artist or a writer or
a politician or somebody who's made some
great change in the world yeah that's
all well and good but
you know i look at it from today's
society
fame has become a currency
and it's become an emotional currency
and fame can be detrimental yeah you
know fame can be detrimental to one's
mental well-being yeah certainly so
people who try to
want to be famous they have all of these
grand ideas about what it means to be
famous
but
those very same things then become
detrimental to what they thought was
fiend so i guess for the for the sake of
this thought experiment
maybe celebrity was the wrong
term to pick but
someone who just has every material
possession they could want in terms of
the car the partner the job the you know
nice food nice house they can travel
anywhere yeah would you rather 100 years
of that or one one day with a mind
that's awakened in terms of how much
i guess joy you would get from it or
whatever yeah like i said it's a
no-brainer it would be the single day
and the reason i would say that is
because you're already happy
your happiness is not dependent upon
that car or dependent upon your bank
balance or dependent upon your family or
dependent upon having a life that you
always wanted
because having a life that you always
wanted there is that want you know
that's the craving and so your mind is
dependent
upon all of these
things
and people and relationships
but imagine a mind that's just happy for
the sake of being happy yeah
then you give them anything they're
happy
you give them a small little bowl of
food they're happy we give them an
entire smorgasbord of food and they're
happy too doesn't matter
i guess also what i'm getting at is is
that happiness to some extent like even
more so than
a mundane level yes
joy that someone would experience just
you know pick someone like your average
person on their best day of their life
right
right yeah let's say an average person
on their best day of their life
they have that uplifted joy they have
that uplift uplifted feeling
and it's quite possible that that
feeling is
internal and not dependent upon things
outside in terms of the sixth sense
basis
so that's a that's a wonderful kind of
happiness to be it but imagine that
where it's not even dependent upon how
the mind is experiencing anything
in other words there can be physical
happiness happiness that is the
gratification of the five physical
senses
and there can be mental happiness which
we talk about from our practice as being
associated with genres
these states of meditative
experiences that allow us to experience
joy and happiness and clarity and
equanimity and tranquility and
contentment and so on
but we're going even one step further
than that and saying that you have
experienced the ultimate happiness
so the way to look at it is it's like
layers or levels of happiness
and the fully awakened mind has gotten
to the pinnacle
of happiness so everything else compared
to that
it's
you know it's not worth it yeah okay
so this is this is mega happiness this
is mega mega
ginormous
happiness
see i think that's way better marketing
than
the end of suffering yeah for some
reason because it's kind of the positive
take on maybe we should say the
beginning of happiness
there we go
uh yeah anyways so that was kind of like
an inside buddhist joke for those who
don't you know first noble truth is
suffering and that's kind of the promise
is the end of suffering but um
uh
so when
in your own practice your own life
did
what was like the day-to-day
change in terms of
did your family notice any change in you
yeah that's a good question because uh
you know let's say we were to talk about
before or after i was always the person
who was always joking around
and uh always somebody who
you know just was very kind of
happy-go-lucky let's say so my family
didn't really notice a lot of changes in
terms of oh there's some kind of shift
there
but uh i think you know when it comes to
day-to-day conversations
the quality and content of those
conversations would have changed
in other words they would gravitate
towards
is what you're doing really worth what
you're doing in terms of is it actually
going to give you happiness or is it
just impermanent
so almost every conversation started to
become a dhamma talk as it were yeah uh
uh you know
a talk on a talk on the meditation
practice to talk on
you know
what is happiness what is joy or does it
make sense to do this or that
that kind of stuff
so i think they noticed those kind of
subtleties in terms of that
but uh
you know meeting friends after a long
time let's say
you know friends who i i hadn't seen in
over five years or in over 10 years
they definitely noticed a shift because
i was a different person five or 10
years ago just by the fact that time has
changed somebody
but regardless of that
they did notice uh certain shifts in
terms of
there was more wisdom about things there
was more clarity about things
and a lot of my friends were wondering
what is it that you're doing you know
can you tell me more about this yeah so
i've had the good fortune to be able to
help my friends
uh
go towards the beginning of happiness
towards the end of suffering yeah
um
you know
you know and that makes a lot of sense
too and i think family
also uh tends to kind of put us in a
neat little box and you talk about not
uh
filtering
reality and we certainly when we see our
family members we just think we know
exactly who they are and they can't
possibly change
but um
you know just as far as uh
like the day-to-day experience
what you're describing also sounds so
radical that someone might expect
uh
that person who's just perfectly content
to really just stop being a functional
human in some ways
and so but
you know just
getting to know you and from what you've
said like play like taste still tastes
good there's still pleasure in that
sense or
um
you know
there's still like
the desire to you know or not
maybe desires the wrong word but just
this ability to have like a fun joking
conversation so there's not like this
the shift isn't so drastic that someone
is
becoming an entirely
like a non-human right right and i think
that's a very good point that you bring
up which is a fully awakened mind is one
thing you know and and that doesn't mean
that the personality there is a there is
a personality shift in so far as how you
take the world to be
but you know the things that you've
grown up with the way that you react
the language that you speak
the culture that you come from
the foods that you are used to eating
the friends that you have the the the
inside jokes you have between friends
and things like that that doesn't go
away
but what goes away is any kind of
expectation
from people
any kind of expectation of how things
should be
or a dissatisfaction
with situations which are not how they
should be because there's no idea of
what should be and what shouldn't be
right
so you know that mind completely is in
the present moment as it were i mean
this is a very cliche thing but it
really is just present with everything
it's just always
in a mode of observing things as they
are so you mentioned earlier a little
bit earlier about you know tastes and
things like that so
foods actually taste better
you actually have you know when you have
pleasant experiences you are fully
experiencing that pleasant feeling
which means there's no you know when we
talk about our filtration system
when you know you have these sensory
data points coming in through the eyes
the ears the nose the tongue
the body and the mind it's just fully
experiencing it so i would i would
venture to say that tastes actually are
deeper
smells are sharper
your vision is sharper
hearing is clear
you know whatever you experience you're
experiencing fully
because there is complete
awareness there yeah complete
mindfulness there
it's due to lack of mindfulness that you
don't fully experience things as they
are or a person doesn't experience
things as they are right and there's
always like what's next you know what do
i do next what do i do here with the way
through there all of that goes away
right right
yeah i mean this is so interesting from
a scientific perspective because it's
really
supportive of different theories of how
consciousness works like the predictive
processing theory of consciousness
and
you know i understand you've been
involved in a study that hasn't been
published yet so you're not allowed to
maybe share the
full results that are
like initial results that you know of
but is there anything you could say
about
like what just generally speaking
when they studied your brain was there
any findings that would support that
experience of not adding to experience
uh yes i would say so uh i mean i can't
really explain exactly what the
researchers had initially told us about
what's going on because the research is
i mean the research paper is still
pending publication
but i could just tell you that it
definitely did support a lot of the
ideas that we see traditionally from
the
the ancient texts of buddhism
it's specifically about the experiences
of what what what is being experienced
in terms of the feeling and the
perception the feeling being the actual
sensory
experience and the perception being the
ability to cognize and understand what
it is that is being experienced
what they did notice and what i can
translate from that particular language
of of the sutras of the texts
is that there's no craving associated
with it
so that mind is just basically
not grasping at anything
right right there's no like
focus on like it has to be this way
there's no focus on that needs to be
mine yeah
it's just completely in a sense
defocused if you want you use the term
sticky too i think that's a good analogy
yeah
so that mind is like a teflon mind it's
like a it's non-sticky it's it's
whatever comes up
it just completely glides on through the
mind doesn't stick to anything nothing
sticks to the mind right and what that
means is you know the experience is
always fluid
right so that mind is always in flow
it's always in flux because it
understands reality as being always
arising and passing away which means
that things just come and go and they
come and go because of certain causes
and conditions yeah so that mind doesn't
hold on to it with an expectation of it
will always be this way
you know it understands that whatever
has happened has happened but if those
causes and conditions that provided that
happening to to be there that occurrence
to be there if that goes if those go
away then that's going to go away as
well the experience is going to go away
as well
yeah so that's why that mind isn't
focused on anything yeah
yeah and i think on the extreme end we
can all
well i think we can all relate to being
stuck on something whether it's a
thought that an argument we got into and
it just sticks in our mind and keeps
replaying and replaying until finally it
burns itself itself out so what a relief
if it would just pass through once and
then you know you're done with it
but i also wanted to mention as far as
the research is concerned that the next
guest on the fitment podcast is going to
be reuben laconin who's one of the
scientists who's studying you so we can
maybe talk more about that part
on this next episode but
for now i thought it'd be fun to do like
a small demonstration if you're up for
it with the muse headband so this is
going to measure your brain waves and
then we can show
um we can show it on my phone
and this will be for the youtube
viewers only
obviously
because i think it just needs to be
touching like the skin of kind of behind
your ear okay yeah
still not huh
why hold on
it takes a little while
yeah we can also just
give it a sec
okay so
i think we want to do like a pre and
post meditation right so this is are you
able to see this david
okay yeah so the caveat is that
this is
it is a clinical grade eeg but it's not
as nearly as sensitive as what you would
find in like the lab experiments that
you did
but these are the different brain wave
frequencies you have delta which is the
slowest
theta here purple alpha beta
and gamma which is high frequency
and you can see the different amounts
for them
so
this is kind of like
just delson's default state and we
you know this data would need to be
analyzed to really tell how much
there is of each frequency but
i wonder if there will be
some kind of a shift if you
if you do like a i guess like a one
minute meditation well we could try and
we could just try it
like a
okay see
cool so
i mean it's really hard to tell what's
going on because this is like
not giving us specific numbers or
anything but one thing that i noticed or
two things i noticed one was that as
soon as you closed your eyes to meditate
there was an immediate
massive drop in the and that's not
connected but there was an immediate
massive drop in the
uh in all frequencies across all the
bands and then the other was that the
delta was really
going up and up into the right for much
of the session and
delta is associated with deep sleep
but it's also
associated or what you would expect to
find in some kind of
cessation where there's um
you know the the mind isn't it's in a
very very calm or completely inactive
state
so thanks for that little demonstration
so my my understanding is that
what's been one of the things that's
been studied in the lab
is cessation which i think you mentioned
briefly at the beginning of our talk
um this lapse in experientially there's
no consciousness there there's just like
like a blank spot
and
you were able to go in
for an exact amount of time so like at
10 minutes you said i'll go into
cessation
you know they saw just a rapid decline
in brain activity and then at exactly
the 90 minute market booted up my
understanding is you can also go in
you've gone in for up to six days
so what is what is cessation and how
does this work exactly
yeah so when we talk about cessation
we're referring to a specific kind of
let's say non-experience because it's
not really an experience
but it it's
it's relating to what's known as
cessation of perception
and feeling and really that cessation of
perception
feeling and consciousness
what that means is
there's no more sensory data being
received even when the eyes are closed
you know you could still receive sensory
data through the ears or through the
nose or through feeling on on the body
or the mind might be active in thinking
about this or that or that might be some
kind of a mental constructive experience
or so on
but in the case of cessation of
perception feeling and consciousness all
of that goes away
so the my the year won't take in any
kind of sound waves
there won't be any smell being received
there won't be any kind of if you tap
the person they won't feel it
and tied to that there won't be any kind
of perception which means that there
won't be any kind of
recognition of what is going on
and consciousness what we're talking
about here is awareness so there's
completely like a blank you don't know
you were in that state
until you actually come out of it right
right and
i think you already alluded to this but
what is the benefit of
going into this advanced meditative
state
why would someone want to do this yeah
so first we have to understand that
there's two ways of looking at it
there's there's one way of where
somebody goes through the whole process
of the meditation
and they naturally experience cessation
of perception feeling and consciousness
and then there is something known as the
attainment of
of the cessation of perception feeling
in consciousness
the difference between the two is that
in the case of somebody who's meditating
their mind might shut off for maybe
a split second
don't really know how long it would have
been as soon as they come out of it
their mind is utterly pure this is what
we were called as being completely
unconditioned
and because all conditions have ceased
including consciousness so when the mind
comes back up again
any kind of contact any kind of spark
that arises
is unconditioned not caused by anything
that initial experience is an experience
of
nirvana or nibana
when we talk about nirvana nibana what
we're saying is you know near
it means fire
so there's no greed hatred or delusion
there there's no craving there's no
grasping
there's no aversion there there's no
identification with anything so that's
the unconditioned mind that's the
unconditioned mind
but it also means uh
vana also obama and vana also mean
forest
meaning there's no forest of conceptual
proliferation going on
there's nothing like being attitude you
know there's no groves there's no
there's no grass growing anywhere it's
just
right there in there pure mind
so that mind is completely unconditioned
that is the benefit of going to
cessation being able to then experience
as it war
uh nibana
and there's some kind of a shift that
occurs from that even before
full awakening right where yes just
having seen how the mind actually works
seeing it kind of boot back up to use a
computer analogy from
cessation there's some kind of uh you
can't unsee that now you really know how
mind works yes and this is what we refer
to as dependent origination
what we are seeing is how mind works in
terms of how it creates reality right
so subjectively everything that we
experience
is through the five physical senses and
the mind
so we are seeing afric coming out of
cessation how the mind creates its own
suffering
or how the mind creates craving whenever
there is some kind of a fuel for that
craving
so it gets really deep but what we're
talking about are these
percolations these proto thoughts that
arise give rising to giving rise
to concepts
and ideas that are projected onto an
experience
that can then give rise to full-blown
craving
clinging and then you know suffering
down the road
so we're seeing that in real time as
these things come up
and we're able to let them go
the thing is that mind is seeing it
without having to bring it up because
it's always happening it's actually
happening whether you know it or not
but now when you have this mind that is
so pure that it can see things
at that minute level
it's actually seeing oh this is what's
happening
now in the fully awakened mind it sees
it but there's no grasping on it before
that there's some level of grasping
whether that's some kind of craving
some kind of conceit or idea of a sense
of self or whatever it might be
but for the fully awakened mind there's
no kind of grasping of this is me this
is mine this is myself
it's just seeing it and that's it
no it's just completely equanimous
no feeling of relief or anything because
now it's just feeling relief
all the time
okay okay so you've
you kind of punctuate
that with certain
like a few times and eventually becomes
the default state yeah and then all the
time the mind is in this unconditioned
state where it's not
the dependent origination the chain of
causality doesn't
you know there's still like feelings
occurring and stuff
but it's not layering on top all this
craving and all this like ideas of how
the world should be or trying to grasp
after
experiences and whatever it is yeah so
basically what we're saying here is that
when you come out of cessation
perception feeling and consciousness
your mind is pure which means your mind
for that split second
is like the mind of an arahant is fully
awakened but what happens is
there is superimposed upon that some
kind of clinging of self they're
superimposed upon that like i want this
experience again yeah that's where the
craving arises
but if you let go of that completely
where those layers of abstraction are
gone
then that's it what had to be done has
been done yeah
i want to bring up a point here because
i think a lot of
meditation teachers today and spiritual
teachers
will say the cliche like be here some
version of like be here now or
you know it's all about being present
you know just
just be here it's you know it's that
easy but
it's not as we all know like it's
the mind naturally
just wants to get away from the present
moment and do all this
uh
filtration all this elaboration and
grasping
after the next moment wanting this
moment to be different than it is yeah
but that's so deeply ingrained that you
can't just tell yourself be here now
this is an actual training process that
you've described is that right that's
correct that's absolutely right because
that's a wandering mind so wandering
mind is a mind with craving
so when the mind wonders there's some
kind of agitation there's some kind of
craving that's happening
so the six hours that we talk about is a
process of deconditioning that wandering
mind
and then reconditioning so that it no
longer wonders
and it's here now as it were it's it's
always present as it were
but you also have to understand that
even being present or the notion of
being present even in the present moment
there can be an idea of
this is me i can still be
a central sort of
person
around the present moment
for the fully awakened mind that
completely dissolves as well
so if you talk about the present moment
it's just a concept in that sense
is there any sense of an experiencer
that's experiencing
there's only an experience going on
that's so radical i you know it's tough
to imagine yeah
yeah it is because everybody comes from
a sense of self like how could you take
away the sense of an experience and how
could there be just an experience
isn't there somebody actually observing
the experience
and no as the experience is happening
there is a knowing of that experience
this is what's known as the eye of
wisdom or the eye of dhamma right so
just being able to see things as they
are but there's no there's no grabbing
with the sense of i am experiencing it
it's just an experience
there is a knowing that this experience
arose because something led to that
experience
so it's actually just seeing dependent
origination all the time
up until the level of feeling
beyond that there's no craving and
before that there's no ignorance because
it's always
present
so if someone wanted to you know if
someone was inspired to start working
towards this this
uh
this training regimen you know you've
mentioned the 6rs that's something that
is taught here at damasuka i've also put
the 6rs on
the fitmind app and the
it's called the deep path module
so that's really like a meditation
practice that they can
undertake in in a sitting sense
but just in terms of going about their
day how might they start reconditioning
the mind
towards you know eventually that being
their default state
right so any kind of meditation but
specifically when we talk about
meditation here
it's about being collected
and being collected means that the mind
has sustained attention on one specific
object on one particular object that
doesn't mean that it's fully focused
doesn't mean that it's concentrated
doesn't mean that it's one pointed
what it means is that that that mind has
an anchor
to stay here
to stay here and now
and in the in the in the course of our
practice we use loving kindness as a
feeling as a psychosomatic feeling that
is experienced as loving-kindness or
compassion or joy or equanimity as we
progress
but that experience becomes the anchor
to the present right becomes an anchor
to being here and now
then
you know when you see that you're no
longer on your object is how you
decondition using the six r's right so i
think a lot of people are familiar with
using the breath as an object
but
here it's often taught you know in the
way in the tradition that you've
practiced
it's
uh and this is called the twin
meditation tranquil wisdom insight
meditation
the object is this
feeling of of good vibes of love and
kindness
and it's
it's naturally
it feels good for the mind to be with
that
i so that's one reason why i think it's
so effective and it also is kind of
conducive to this open awareness that's
really able to investigate reality as it
or experience as it is yes yes so that
six-hour process that we use is actually
developing wisdom
understanding and not getting caught up
in the distraction
uh not having any resistance to the
distraction
not trying to push away the distraction
we're not trying to suppress the
distraction we're recognizing oh
mind is no longer on its object mind is
distracted okay no big deal
release your attention from that relax
let go of the tightness and tension let
go of the craving come back to the smile
now the smile is so important here so
people can just start the meditation or
start coming into a meditative state if
they're just starting
is to stay with the smile because the
smile keeps the mind uplifted keeps it
light yeah keeps it joyful and playful
so it actually keeps it very present in
whatever is going on and you'll notice
when people ruminate
when people start to think about this or
that their smile goes away
right
so you come back to the smile and you
come back to your object
so this is the process and you can apply
the six hours anywhere it doesn't have
to be just meditation
if you notice that your mind starts to
pop up with all kinds of ideas resisting
to the present moment
not being happy with what's going on
or trying to change it in some way
or having a reactivity to somebody
saying something you can notice that
that's the recognized step you can
release your attention from that
you can relax in that moment
and come back to the smile or come back
to something that's more uplifting yeah
and then
respond with wisdom respond with
compassion respond with balance of mind
so the meditation is not just
formally sitting and
staying with your object
but it's also being aware of how mind's
attention moves from one thing to the
other this is what we say is the
definition of mindfulness right meaning
you're observing how your mind actually
works and that's where wisdom comes from
right right
so you're just observing without
interfering
you know it's an interesting point about
the smiling too because
if you just look around
at
people on the street or wherever it is a
restaurant that you're eating
you see so much tension in their face
and so much like for so many furrowed
brows and so much anger or like and you
can just tell that their mindset must be
one of filled with craving yeah
yeah
and you know you could help them by uh
trying to compliment on something or
just pass a joyful comment to them and
you see how their their eyes light up
and how they're happy this is this is
the true
understanding of meditation is that it's
not just
uh the sitting and walking and
everything else but it's how you
interact with people as well
yeah so loving kindness is not about
just feeling it but actually being able
to spread it through your actions
through your words
through your intentions
so if you can smile you'll notice that
people start to gravitate towards you
naturally yeah and they start to smile
around you and it's not something you
have to get out and go out of your own
way to do
it just naturally translate and
translates into situations and
circumstances
where people start to feel
that kind of energy around you yeah
yeah and you know the other point that
you made that i just wanted to
re-emphasize is that when you relax
you're feeling
the relief before
needing to satisfy whatever it is you
think you need to make you happy
so if it's the chocolate cake if you
just relax instead of
feeling tense and then needing to eat
the cake to finally relax if you just
relax that step of the six hours you
immediately feel just as good in fact
better because you're you know you're
not full of cake yeah
yeah and that's a very good point i mean
we talk about at a very extreme level
crimes of passion or people who do
something out of reactivity
it's just like a split second it's not
even decision it's just like they act
but if you can slow things down on on
the cognitive level
and realize that oh i'm starting to get
you know agitated about this
and relax and experience really in that
moment when you relax you're
experiencing relief which is also the
third normal truth of the cessation of
suffering right so your mind being free
of that craving free of that suffering
in that moment is wise
so you won't react you won't be reactive
to the situation or to the person you'll
actually
give that space
give that time for your mind to
take in all that information
because it's relaxed it can bring up
something that is wholesome
bring up something that is
the best outcome for that situation or
that person
in a sense i would i would think that
you know what you're doing is you're
giving your brain the space
so that the prefrontal cortex comes up
and is able to then really make a proper
judgment of things rather than just
immediately reacting right yeah you're
no longer a robot you're
responsive and uh aware of what's
happening
yeah it's a good way to put it so
are you ready for the traditional rapid
fire uh final section of the interview
let's do it
all right so uh
i know you're a big movie buff what's
your favorite movie of all time
star wars the empire strikes back and
i'll tell you why please
please please expand look i mean the
whole star wars trilogy is great right
but the empire strikes back is the first
time
you meet yoda
and that's the first time you get really
deep wisdom into
things that were
you know the jedi and the jedi order
were really inspired
from the ancient spiritual traditions
right specifically buddhism yeah so and
empire strikes back is just a great
movie yeah i mean just in terms of
cinematic appeal it's got a great story
great characters great script great
dialogue
all of those things
now it is difficult to choose one movie
but i would have to say since this is a
rapid fire that's the movie i would
choose
thank you for being so definitive
and uh
yeah i mean my understanding is yoda was
based off of either maharishi
mahashiyogi or
tibetan llama right um yeah was it
george lucas that was
yeah yeah yeah he clearly did a lot of
meditation and you know we we talk about
this here in the meditation as well
people you know you give advice to
people and you tell them this is what
you should try you should not try that's
the other thing this is what you should
do yeah and then they'll people will say
i'll try
yeah okay and that's i'll try my best
and that's when you say
there is no tragedy do or do not
yeah and that comes from the great
wisdom of yoda right so
yoda has some great lines that allow you
to know
you know like you know in in
in one of the movies he says he actually
talks about dependent origination
in some sense he says fear leads to
anger anger leads to hate
hate leads to suffering so he's showing
causality and conditionality
this leads to this this leads to that
let go of this and you let go of
suffering let go of this you let go of
hate and so on
so some great
great quotes by yoda smart yeah very
smart little afraid
yeah
see through you we can
be mindful of your feelings your
thoughts dwell on your mother
i miss her
afraid to lose her i think
what does that got to do with anything
everything
fear is the path to the dark side
fear leads to anger anger leads to hate
hate
leads to suffering
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um
what's something people might be
surprised to learn about you
uh that i was a screenwriter uh before i
got into the meditative tradition
and i actually uh
you know optioned well some of my
screenplays were optioned by some really
interesting celebrities
so
matt damon right didn't he buy one of
you matt damon robert de niro a few
other people yeah so any idea when that
might be coming out there
you never know with these things i mean
when it comes to the movies uh it can
take anywhere from 10 to 15 years for a
movie to come out because there's so
much stuff to do in pre-production but
that that particular uh script
was optioned uh back in 2000
uh
i'd say 2011 or 12 and then the other
one 2013 so
any minute now okay all right i'll
decide a calendar reminder to check back
in a few years uh
what what's one thing that you'd change
about the world today
what's one thing i would change about
the world today yeah as far as i guess i
should be more specific like
um
in terms of
i guess geopolitically or kind of just
in terms of what people are doing with
their lives
maybe that's a better better way to
phrase it well the way i would look at
it is
that's just their karma
yeah you know
so the way people react to situations
whether it's on a geopolitical scale or
climate change and all of these things
this is why we're here is to experience
all of this
so
in my mind things are okay
things are fine it's just causes and
conditions but we have some kind of
free will is a hairy topic but yeah
there's some kind of decision there are
decisions being made right
uh
and if people were to slow down as you
described and use this process of kind
of retraining the mind and being more
aware yeah that might naturally change a
lot of things don't you think yeah so i
think one thing we should change is
probably get twimmed to every single
global leader yeah
like right away right away
yeah i couldn't agree more
um and then finally what's a place you'd
like to visit most in the world
well i think a place i would like to
revisit again would be back in the
himalayas going to the cave
you know and chill there
wonderful um
and you know also throw it out for
those listening that you're doing this
kind of world tour and you're booked
through
i think through like 2023 now yeah
you you know if they
i guess if they live in a major city or
somewhere at the meditation center they
could you could probably be in touch
with uh
yeah so they should get in touch with uh
uh sutawata
and send an email to info
dot foundation
right uh or just go to the go to the
website sudavada.foundation
and then if they're interested they can
contact
the people there so you've got
india
next uh
for september through
like november four retreats there then
malaysia bali sfla so yeah so i got
india and then malaysia and then
indonesia so i'll be in jakarta for a
couple of days and i'll be in bali for a
few days
and then from there
i'll be going to san francisco
i have
time spent over here at damasuca
for at least three or four months so
that's going to hurt in missouri
and then also something going on in l.a
then from there i'm going to
uh europe
so i'll be in the uk uh possibly
netherlands belgium
possibly italy yeah um
and then who knows where else and then
australia is another option at the end
of 2023. and can people find these on a
website somewhere where would they sign
up for their retreats okay so there's a
couple of places one would be uh
damasuka would have it damasuka.org
sutavara.foundation and now
you know sudavara has actually created a
new website
uh which is sort of just my kind of
calling card and that's uh delson
armstrong
dot info oh nice you're a dot info now
yeah i'm a dot info
now uh great so i'll put all those links
in the show notes and um
yeah i also just want to give you a
chance to
to plug oh and also put a link to your
patreon page which we're going to make
soon and then
um i just wanted to give you a chance to
plug your work as far as uh
you know where can people find your your
books yeah on amazon right so mine
without craving is on amazon it's
available for
a free download on the sutawata webpage
and it's also available for
download free download on the delson
armstrong dot info page but it'll be
available on
it is available on amazon as paperback
as hardcover and as kindle and here it
is shameless plug buy it now or download
it free on yeah those sites i told you
you know and i should also mention that
everything
all of delson's teaching is for free and
it's donation based yeah so i mean that
model is i think kind of rare in in the
world today and so he really
uh yeah i mean if you could support
delson on on patreon
if you
think what he does is useful for the
world that would be uh just a great act
of generosity so anyway delson this has
been an absolute pleasure thanks for
coming on the fitment podcast thank you
i had fun as always
hi i'm mehta nanda a salmonera monk here
at damasuke meditation center
and today i'm lucky to be joined by
delson armstrong who's a friend a
meditation teacher
he's leading retreats all around the
world and a very experienced yogi and
meditator
he's actually been collaborating with
elite neuroscience labs
all over the world in amsterdam and soon
in harvard at harvard and
he's um
actually in in this episode we'll have a
cool visual demonstration
of delson's brain waves using the muse
which is the consumer
eeg which basically is a headband
as
you'll see soon that can measure
delson's brain while he meditates
and most recently delson is the author
of a book called titled a mind without
craving
so delson welcome to the welcome to the
show thanks for being here thanks for
having me good to be here
so i think that'll be a good place to
start with the title of your book a mind
without craving
what does that mean
yeah mind without cravings so when we
talk about a mind without craving
what we're saying is it's a mind that's
happy all the time
and the reason i say that is because if
you look at it from the context of the
practice that we do here
we're looking at it from what's known as
the four noble truths which is suffering
the cause of suffering the
cessation of suffering and the way
leading to the cessation of suffering
and a mind without craving is the third
noble truth which is the cessation of
any kind of suffering which means you
cease the craving
and when we talk about craving craving
is basically that mind that grasps at
something
from a sense of self
it says i like it or i don't like it or
i am it
and it manifests as tightness and
tension in the head
and in the body
so a mind without craving is basically a
mind that has no mental suffering at all
it will still feel pain it will still
feel bodily pain it will still feel
bodily discomfort
it'll still have unpleasant feelings
but there won't be any mental agitation
because of it
so there won't be any grasping there
won't be any kind of reactivity to it
and so that mind without craving is
basically a mind
that is relaxed all the time that has
relief all the time and is happy all the
time
beautiful i mean this sounds like
something that
we would all want and uh i think it's
kind of radical what you're saying
because
most people don't realize that's even a
possibility i mean it's just kind of
accepted that part of the human
condition is that there's this perpetual
cycle of kind of dissatisfaction and
then striving to get something in the
future that might make us happy
experiencing some joy here and there but
really
looking for things a lot of the time and
the meditation traditions
have
traditionally this big promise that you
can have a mind without suffering
but i don't think a lot of people even
realize that's possible
so how did this come about for you if
you're able to just kind of
walk us through like
the last kind of cognitive shifts that
occurred for you
when doing the meditation practice
right so first we should understand that
when we talk about this meditation
practice what really differentiates it
from other meditative practices
the majority of meditation practices
is that there is what's known as
the relaxed step so the way to apply the
meditation
is basically observing
an object of meditation
and you remain collected in that object
of meditation
when your mind gets distracted when your
mind moves away from it you use the six
hours and at the heart of that is what's
known as relax
so very briefly put the six hours is
recognizing when you got distracted
releasing attention from it relaxing any
tightness and tension that's the craving
or agitation
coming back to a smile to uplift the
mind and returning back to your objects
yeah and the six is repeat
so that was the application of effort
that i did so it was very relaxed very
open very spacious in terms of the
mindset and the awareness
because of that my mind was able to
actually get really deep into the
practice
and in a very relaxed manner
there comes a point in the meditation
for everyone where there is a really
uh
wonderful joyful cognitive shift that
happens
and this happens when the mind first
completely shuts off as war there's no
consciousness there there's no awareness
there
and when it comes back online there is
this rush
of joy and relief that is experienced
and as a result when you come out of the
meditation and you look around you
everything seems very hyper vivid
it's everything is much cleaner as it
were there's no impediments
you know before you see a tree and yeah
you see it's a tree that's great but
after this cognitive shift you look at
the tree and you actually see each and
every detail of the leaf of that tree
and the bark of that tree or each blade
of grass
or each curvature of clouds in the sky
you know it's very hyper
detailed
and the way i look at that the way i
understand it is that the mind in that
in that time has let go a lot of craving
let go of a lot of suffering
so there's no more of this filtration
system or the filter as it were has been
cleaned up
yeah so you can see reality as it
actually is
amazing so
um
you know the
the way you describe this in your book i
think is pretty beautiful
you say the mind of an arhat which is
someone who's fully awakened
is completely free from all concepts
when he or she experiences reality as it
is through the sixth sense basis so this
is the five senses and then also the
mind
consciousness feeling and perception all
these processes are completely empty
completely void they're empty of any
conceit of i me or mine when an arhat
experiences reality there is no
conceptual proliferation that arises
from any perception that arises it is
being experienced in that moment through
the sense and the sense faculties
their consciousness the awareness is
still functional but it is void of any
sense of self
so this no self experience
or not self experience is
also commonly talked about in different
meditation traditions
but i think it's a very confusing one
for people because they just look down
at their body and they think it's pretty
obvious that there's a self here
so
what is that actually mean
experientially to not feel like anything
is self
yeah
so when we talk about self and not self
or no self but it's really not self
which is you understand that everything
is just empty of any kind of
personal self
you realize that everything is a process
or a series of processes that are just
causes and conditions to bring about
that
experience here for someone who becomes
fully awakened
they experience the world in such a way
that there is no more as it's written
there conceptual proliferation
or mental proliferation
so we could take the example of a
chocolate cake
right somebody somebody who's not fully
awakened or not awakened at all looks at
chocolate cake and there can be all of
these ideas around that chocolate cake
like you know my mother used to bake me
this kind of chocolate cake or i
remember having this chocolate cake at
this particular restaurant or bakery
or you know i wonder how many calories
are in a slice of chocolate cake or i
wonder what kind of chocolate is used in
that kind of chocolate cake all of these
different ideas you know and this is
this is the process of the default mode
network
so on an experiential level for the for
the awakened mind they just see
chocolate cake
now their mind you know they're they're
they might be habituated towards
enjoying chocolate cake but
you take away the chocolate cake from
them
and they won't get affected by it one
way or the other but to know if a mind
is filled with craving is oh they dig
into the chocolate cake you snatch it
away from them and look at their
reaction yeah they will feel agitated by
it
so coming through that idea of craving
you know we talk about it in terms of
you know this agitation as well the mind
that tightens up over something around
something
and then you look at that object of
craving and then you
you know you take that and you enjoy it
and then you feel relief
but that mind without any craving that
mind of the arahant is basically in
relief all the time relaxed all the time
so they don't need anything
to make them happy as it were right
their mind is always happy
it's a it's it's independent it's
liberated from
the need or desire to enjoy something
the need or desire to
have another object that that will
create happiness
internally they are filled with joy
internally they are filled with
relief internally they are filled with
equanimity
so there's no conceptual proliferation
going on when you see things as they are
what it's saying is
in the seeing you're only seeing it as
it is
there is this filtration system which is
you know filtered by the craving
filtered by
what's in it for me
how does this benefit me
or what can i get out of this
all of that is based in conceit
and for the fully awakened mind they
don't see it in that way they don't have
an agenda
so they can fully enjoy things as they
are
without having to add a layer or
superimpose a layer of a sense of
personal self right
yeah so
i mean this is
i think intuitive for a lot of people
what you're saying the sense that
we're
always
seeking for happiness out there looking
for things to satisfy us and we do this
all day long we do it on a micro level
whether it's just adjusting the position
in our chair to get away from something
that's unpleasant or moving towards and
wanting more of something that's
pleasant like the chocolate cake
and we do it on a macro level which is
seeking the new
house the new job the new partner
that we think will
finally make everything okay in our life
we'll finally be happy and that might be
true for some time but then the mind
just wants more of whatever it is that's
pleasant or wants to get rid of
unpleasant things people we don't like
situations we don't like
and so what you're describing this mind
without craving this awakened mind is
really a mind that's content no matter
what's going on is that right yes
yeah exactly it's content all the time
now you know we have to differentiate
between let's say bodily pain and mental
pain
so in the case of somebody who's not
fully awakened they will still have
mental pain we talk about this in the
form of the two arrows
or the two darts somebody feels pain
that's just a bodily pain
but then they add to it some kind of
agitation and that's where the
reactivity and trouble starts
but for the awakened mind there's only
the bodily pain so they will still feel
pain they will still feel
some kind of discomfort
right but there's no sense of
anger or irritation or
sadness or grief associated with that
pain
likewise
you know or on the flip side of that if
it's a pleasant feeling
they won't like grasp around it
so i would venture to say
that for the fully awakened mind
they don't have any sort of
you know
i would think that their dopamine and
serotonin levels are completely balanced
yeah in that sense they're not like
always looking for the next fix right as
it were right
yeah i mean so
the way this works with the chocolate
cake example for example is
when someone has already experienced
chocolate cake when they just at the
mere sight of it again their dopamine
reward system is going to start going
create this uncomfortable
urge to go get some chocolate cake to
satisfy that kind of agitated feeling
the cake will taste good but it's really
the relief that comes from finally
feeling like okay
that
agitation is gone
and it sounds like in the awakened mind
that no longer happens
um and it also sounds like the
pro you've mentioned proliferation where
we're just
constantly layering on
layers of abstraction from raw data in
the world so like we look at something
but we don't see it as it is we see
all of our memories of it and how it can
benefit us in one way or another and
what we expect it to be and how we want
more of it or less of it or you know
even like extreme emotions towards it
um instead of just like the color and
form that's there in our awareness yes
yes and so even the awakened mind will
have perception which is to say they
will have memory
of uh you know this is uh
you know this is a person that i know
from from
my friendship or from my childhood or
whatever it might be
but that's where the layer of
experience stops beyond that there's no
like grudge being held against them or
there's no like oh this person did this
to me or did that to me
you know we take a look at this for
example this pen
right
this pen for us
as humans is a writing instrument
for a dog it would be a chew toy yeah so
you know it's you will still perceive it
as it actually is you'll still say okay
this is a pen
but beyond that it won't say oh this is
a specific type of pen which i only like
yeah or my father gave me this pen so it
has some kind of emotional value to it
right so those kinds of projections are
gone and they wake in mind right so
you're not gonna cry and wail when the
you know you lose the pen but you're
also not going to start
chewing on it
[Laughter]
so that's good that's reassuring
so
all right this is kind of a i don't know
a spicy question but would someone
rather be a fully
healthy happy
celebrity because i a lot of celebrities
aren't happy but at least people think
think they are so let's pick a celebrity
who
you know
actually is pretty happy and they've
just they've got everything they they
want materially they've got the you know
the attractive partner and all that
for 100 years
or in the awakened mind for a single day
[Laughter]
i think that's a no-brainer
because you think about having a fully
awakened mind you know we talk about a
celebrity right let's say we talk about
a celebrity who's
extremely healthy
seems to be happy
but you know fame is what defines a
celebrity which means that there's
somebody who's well-known somebody who's
celebrated in society
but for what reason because they're
idolized for some kind of ideal that
they represent
whether they're coming from the movies
and they so personify a specific type of
character
or music you know or they they
they are celebrated as
somebody who is an artist or a writer or
a politician or somebody who's made some
great change in the world yeah that's
all well and good but
you know i look at it from today's
society
fame has become a currency
and it's become an emotional currency
and fame can be detrimental yeah you
know fame can be detrimental to one's
mental well-being yeah certainly so
people who try to
want to be famous they have all of these
grand ideas about what it means to be
famous
but
those very same things then become
detrimental to what they thought was
fiend so i guess for the for the sake of
this thought experiment
maybe celebrity was the wrong
term to pick but
someone who just has every material
possession they could want in terms of
the car the partner the job the you know
nice food nice house they can travel
anywhere yeah would you rather 100 years
of that or one one day with a mind
that's awakened in terms of how much
i guess joy you would get from it or
whatever yeah like i said it's a
no-brainer it would be the single day
and the reason i would say that is
because you're already happy
your happiness is not dependent upon
that car or dependent upon your bank
balance or dependent upon your family or
dependent upon having a life that you
always wanted
because having a life that you always
wanted there is that want you know
that's the craving and so your mind is
dependent
upon all of these
things
and people and relationships
but imagine a mind that's just happy for
the sake of being happy yeah
then you give them anything they're
happy
you give them a small little bowl of
food they're happy we give them an
entire smorgasbord of food and they're
happy too doesn't matter
i guess also what i'm getting at is is
that happiness to some extent like even
more so than
a mundane level yes
joy that someone would experience just
you know pick someone like your average
person on their best day of their life
right
right yeah let's say an average person
on their best day of their life
they have that uplifted joy they have
that uplift uplifted feeling
and it's quite possible that that
feeling is
internal and not dependent upon things
outside in terms of the sixth sense
basis
so that's a that's a wonderful kind of
happiness to be it but imagine that
where it's not even dependent upon how
the mind is experiencing anything
in other words there can be physical
happiness happiness that is the
gratification of the five physical
senses
and there can be mental happiness which
we talk about from our practice as being
associated with genres
these states of meditative
experiences that allow us to experience
joy and happiness and clarity and
equanimity and tranquility and
contentment and so on
but we're going even one step further
than that and saying that you have
experienced the ultimate happiness
so the way to look at it is it's like
layers or levels of happiness
and the fully awakened mind has gotten
to the pinnacle
of happiness so everything else compared
to that
it's
you know it's not worth it yeah okay
so this is this is mega happiness this
is mega mega
ginormous
happiness
see i think that's way better marketing
than
the end of suffering yeah for some
reason because it's kind of the positive
take on maybe we should say the
beginning of happiness
there we go
uh yeah anyways so that was kind of like
an inside buddhist joke for those who
don't you know first noble truth is
suffering and that's kind of the promise
is the end of suffering but um
uh
so when
in your own practice your own life
did
what was like the day-to-day
change in terms of
did your family notice any change in you
yeah that's a good question because uh
you know let's say we were to talk about
before or after i was always the person
who was always joking around
and uh always somebody who
you know just was very kind of
happy-go-lucky let's say so my family
didn't really notice a lot of changes in
terms of oh there's some kind of shift
there
but uh i think you know when it comes to
day-to-day conversations
the quality and content of those
conversations would have changed
in other words they would gravitate
towards
is what you're doing really worth what
you're doing in terms of is it actually
going to give you happiness or is it
just impermanent
so almost every conversation started to
become a dhamma talk as it were yeah uh
uh you know
a talk on a talk on the meditation
practice to talk on
you know
what is happiness what is joy or does it
make sense to do this or that
that kind of stuff
so i think they noticed those kind of
subtleties in terms of that
but uh
you know meeting friends after a long
time let's say
you know friends who i i hadn't seen in
over five years or in over 10 years
they definitely noticed a shift because
i was a different person five or 10
years ago just by the fact that time has
changed somebody
but regardless of that
they did notice uh certain shifts in
terms of
there was more wisdom about things there
was more clarity about things
and a lot of my friends were wondering
what is it that you're doing you know
can you tell me more about this yeah so
i've had the good fortune to be able to
help my friends
uh
go towards the beginning of happiness
towards the end of suffering yeah
um
you know
you know and that makes a lot of sense
too and i think family
also uh tends to kind of put us in a
neat little box and you talk about not
uh
filtering
reality and we certainly when we see our
family members we just think we know
exactly who they are and they can't
possibly change
but um
you know just as far as uh
like the day-to-day experience
what you're describing also sounds so
radical that someone might expect
uh
that person who's just perfectly content
to really just stop being a functional
human in some ways
and so but
you know just
getting to know you and from what you've
said like play like taste still tastes
good there's still pleasure in that
sense or
um
you know
there's still like
the desire to you know or not
maybe desires the wrong word but just
this ability to have like a fun joking
conversation so there's not like this
the shift isn't so drastic that someone
is
becoming an entirely
like a non-human right right and i think
that's a very good point that you bring
up which is a fully awakened mind is one
thing you know and and that doesn't mean
that the personality there is a there is
a personality shift in so far as how you
take the world to be
but you know the things that you've
grown up with the way that you react
the language that you speak
the culture that you come from
the foods that you are used to eating
the friends that you have the the the
inside jokes you have between friends
and things like that that doesn't go
away
but what goes away is any kind of
expectation
from people
any kind of expectation of how things
should be
or a dissatisfaction
with situations which are not how they
should be because there's no idea of
what should be and what shouldn't be
right
so you know that mind completely is in
the present moment as it were i mean
this is a very cliche thing but it
really is just present with everything
it's just always
in a mode of observing things as they
are so you mentioned earlier a little
bit earlier about you know tastes and
things like that so
foods actually taste better
you actually have you know when you have
pleasant experiences you are fully
experiencing that pleasant feeling
which means there's no you know when we
talk about our filtration system
when you know you have these sensory
data points coming in through the eyes
the ears the nose the tongue
the body and the mind it's just fully
experiencing it so i would i would
venture to say that tastes actually are
deeper
smells are sharper
your vision is sharper
hearing is clear
you know whatever you experience you're
experiencing fully
because there is complete
awareness there yeah complete
mindfulness there
it's due to lack of mindfulness that you
don't fully experience things as they
are or a person doesn't experience
things as they are right and there's
always like what's next you know what do
i do next what do i do here with the way
through there all of that goes away
right right
yeah i mean this is so interesting from
a scientific perspective because it's
really
supportive of different theories of how
consciousness works like the predictive
processing theory of consciousness
and
you know i understand you've been
involved in a study that hasn't been
published yet so you're not allowed to
maybe share the
full results that are
like initial results that you know of
but is there anything you could say
about
like what just generally speaking
when they studied your brain was there
any findings that would support that
experience of not adding to experience
uh yes i would say so uh i mean i can't
really explain exactly what the
researchers had initially told us about
what's going on because the research is
i mean the research paper is still
pending publication
but i could just tell you that it
definitely did support a lot of the
ideas that we see traditionally from
the
the ancient texts of buddhism
it's specifically about the experiences
of what what what is being experienced
in terms of the feeling and the
perception the feeling being the actual
sensory
experience and the perception being the
ability to cognize and understand what
it is that is being experienced
what they did notice and what i can
translate from that particular language
of of the sutras of the texts
is that there's no craving associated
with it
so that mind is just basically
not grasping at anything
right right there's no like
focus on like it has to be this way
there's no focus on that needs to be
mine yeah
it's just completely in a sense
defocused if you want you use the term
sticky too i think that's a good analogy
yeah
so that mind is like a teflon mind it's
like a it's non-sticky it's it's
whatever comes up
it just completely glides on through the
mind doesn't stick to anything nothing
sticks to the mind right and what that
means is you know the experience is
always fluid
right so that mind is always in flow
it's always in flux because it
understands reality as being always
arising and passing away which means
that things just come and go and they
come and go because of certain causes
and conditions yeah so that mind doesn't
hold on to it with an expectation of it
will always be this way
you know it understands that whatever
has happened has happened but if those
causes and conditions that provided that
happening to to be there that occurrence
to be there if that goes if those go
away then that's going to go away as
well the experience is going to go away
as well
yeah so that's why that mind isn't
focused on anything yeah
yeah and i think on the extreme end we
can all
well i think we can all relate to being
stuck on something whether it's a
thought that an argument we got into and
it just sticks in our mind and keeps
replaying and replaying until finally it
burns itself itself out so what a relief
if it would just pass through once and
then you know you're done with it
but i also wanted to mention as far as
the research is concerned that the next
guest on the fitment podcast is going to
be reuben laconin who's one of the
scientists who's studying you so we can
maybe talk more about that part
on this next episode but
for now i thought it'd be fun to do like
a small demonstration if you're up for
it with the muse headband so this is
going to measure your brain waves and
then we can show
um we can show it on my phone
and this will be for the youtube
viewers only
obviously
because i think it just needs to be
touching like the skin of kind of behind
your ear okay yeah
still not huh
why hold on
it takes a little while
yeah we can also just
give it a sec
okay so
i think we want to do like a pre and
post meditation right so this is are you
able to see this david
okay yeah so the caveat is that
this is
it is a clinical grade eeg but it's not
as nearly as sensitive as what you would
find in like the lab experiments that
you did
but these are the different brain wave
frequencies you have delta which is the
slowest
theta here purple alpha beta
and gamma which is high frequency
and you can see the different amounts
for them
so
this is kind of like
just delson's default state and we
you know this data would need to be
analyzed to really tell how much
there is of each frequency but
i wonder if there will be
some kind of a shift if you
if you do like a i guess like a one
minute meditation well we could try and
we could just try it
like a
okay see
cool so
i mean it's really hard to tell what's
going on because this is like
not giving us specific numbers or
anything but one thing that i noticed or
two things i noticed one was that as
soon as you closed your eyes to meditate
there was an immediate
massive drop in the and that's not
connected but there was an immediate
massive drop in the
uh in all frequencies across all the
bands and then the other was that the
delta was really
going up and up into the right for much
of the session and
delta is associated with deep sleep
but it's also
associated or what you would expect to
find in some kind of
cessation where there's um
you know the the mind isn't it's in a
very very calm or completely inactive
state
so thanks for that little demonstration
so my my understanding is that
what's been one of the things that's
been studied in the lab
is cessation which i think you mentioned
briefly at the beginning of our talk
um this lapse in experientially there's
no consciousness there there's just like
like a blank spot
and
you were able to go in
for an exact amount of time so like at
10 minutes you said i'll go into
cessation
you know they saw just a rapid decline
in brain activity and then at exactly
the 90 minute market booted up my
understanding is you can also go in
you've gone in for up to six days
so what is what is cessation and how
does this work exactly
yeah so when we talk about cessation
we're referring to a specific kind of
let's say non-experience because it's
not really an experience
but it it's
it's relating to what's known as
cessation of perception
and feeling and really that cessation of
perception
feeling and consciousness
what that means is
there's no more sensory data being
received even when the eyes are closed
you know you could still receive sensory
data through the ears or through the
nose or through feeling on on the body
or the mind might be active in thinking
about this or that or that might be some
kind of a mental constructive experience
or so on
but in the case of cessation of
perception feeling and consciousness all
of that goes away
so the my the year won't take in any
kind of sound waves
there won't be any smell being received
there won't be any kind of if you tap
the person they won't feel it
and tied to that there won't be any kind
of perception which means that there
won't be any kind of
recognition of what is going on
and consciousness what we're talking
about here is awareness so there's
completely like a blank you don't know
you were in that state
until you actually come out of it right
right and
i think you already alluded to this but
what is the benefit of
going into this advanced meditative
state
why would someone want to do this yeah
so first we have to understand that
there's two ways of looking at it
there's there's one way of where
somebody goes through the whole process
of the meditation
and they naturally experience cessation
of perception feeling and consciousness
and then there is something known as the
attainment of
of the cessation of perception feeling
in consciousness
the difference between the two is that
in the case of somebody who's meditating
their mind might shut off for maybe
a split second
don't really know how long it would have
been as soon as they come out of it
their mind is utterly pure this is what
we were called as being completely
unconditioned
and because all conditions have ceased
including consciousness so when the mind
comes back up again
any kind of contact any kind of spark
that arises
is unconditioned not caused by anything
that initial experience is an experience
of
nirvana or nibana
when we talk about nirvana nibana what
we're saying is you know near
it means fire
so there's no greed hatred or delusion
there there's no craving there's no
grasping
there's no aversion there there's no
identification with anything so that's
the unconditioned mind that's the
unconditioned mind
but it also means uh
vana also obama and vana also mean
forest
meaning there's no forest of conceptual
proliferation going on
there's nothing like being attitude you
know there's no groves there's no
there's no grass growing anywhere it's
just
right there in there pure mind
so that mind is completely unconditioned
that is the benefit of going to
cessation being able to then experience
as it war
uh nibana
and there's some kind of a shift that
occurs from that even before
full awakening right where yes just
having seen how the mind actually works
seeing it kind of boot back up to use a
computer analogy from
cessation there's some kind of uh you
can't unsee that now you really know how
mind works yes and this is what we refer
to as dependent origination
what we are seeing is how mind works in
terms of how it creates reality right
so subjectively everything that we
experience
is through the five physical senses and
the mind
so we are seeing afric coming out of
cessation how the mind creates its own
suffering
or how the mind creates craving whenever
there is some kind of a fuel for that
craving
so it gets really deep but what we're
talking about are these
percolations these proto thoughts that
arise give rising to giving rise
to concepts
and ideas that are projected onto an
experience
that can then give rise to full-blown
craving
clinging and then you know suffering
down the road
so we're seeing that in real time as
these things come up
and we're able to let them go
the thing is that mind is seeing it
without having to bring it up because
it's always happening it's actually
happening whether you know it or not
but now when you have this mind that is
so pure that it can see things
at that minute level
it's actually seeing oh this is what's
happening
now in the fully awakened mind it sees
it but there's no grasping on it before
that there's some level of grasping
whether that's some kind of craving
some kind of conceit or idea of a sense
of self or whatever it might be
but for the fully awakened mind there's
no kind of grasping of this is me this
is mine this is myself
it's just seeing it and that's it
no it's just completely equanimous
no feeling of relief or anything because
now it's just feeling relief
all the time
okay okay so you've
you kind of punctuate
that with certain
like a few times and eventually becomes
the default state yeah and then all the
time the mind is in this unconditioned
state where it's not
the dependent origination the chain of
causality doesn't
you know there's still like feelings
occurring and stuff
but it's not layering on top all this
craving and all this like ideas of how
the world should be or trying to grasp
after
experiences and whatever it is yeah so
basically what we're saying here is that
when you come out of cessation
perception feeling and consciousness
your mind is pure which means your mind
for that split second
is like the mind of an arahant is fully
awakened but what happens is
there is superimposed upon that some
kind of clinging of self they're
superimposed upon that like i want this
experience again yeah that's where the
craving arises
but if you let go of that completely
where those layers of abstraction are
gone
then that's it what had to be done has
been done yeah
i want to bring up a point here because
i think a lot of
meditation teachers today and spiritual
teachers
will say the cliche like be here some
version of like be here now or
you know it's all about being present
you know just
just be here it's you know it's that
easy but
it's not as we all know like it's
the mind naturally
just wants to get away from the present
moment and do all this
uh
filtration all this elaboration and
grasping
after the next moment wanting this
moment to be different than it is yeah
but that's so deeply ingrained that you
can't just tell yourself be here now
this is an actual training process that
you've described is that right that's
correct that's absolutely right because
that's a wandering mind so wandering
mind is a mind with craving
so when the mind wonders there's some
kind of agitation there's some kind of
craving that's happening
so the six hours that we talk about is a
process of deconditioning that wandering
mind
and then reconditioning so that it no
longer wonders
and it's here now as it were it's it's
always present as it were
but you also have to understand that
even being present or the notion of
being present even in the present moment
there can be an idea of
this is me i can still be
a central sort of
person
around the present moment
for the fully awakened mind that
completely dissolves as well
so if you talk about the present moment
it's just a concept in that sense
is there any sense of an experiencer
that's experiencing
there's only an experience going on
that's so radical i you know it's tough
to imagine yeah
yeah it is because everybody comes from
a sense of self like how could you take
away the sense of an experience and how
could there be just an experience
isn't there somebody actually observing
the experience
and no as the experience is happening
there is a knowing of that experience
this is what's known as the eye of
wisdom or the eye of dhamma right so
just being able to see things as they
are but there's no there's no grabbing
with the sense of i am experiencing it
it's just an experience
there is a knowing that this experience
arose because something led to that
experience
so it's actually just seeing dependent
origination all the time
up until the level of feeling
beyond that there's no craving and
before that there's no ignorance because
it's always
present
so if someone wanted to you know if
someone was inspired to start working
towards this this
uh
this training regimen you know you've
mentioned the 6rs that's something that
is taught here at damasuka i've also put
the 6rs on
the fitmind app and the
it's called the deep path module
so that's really like a meditation
practice that they can
undertake in in a sitting sense
but just in terms of going about their
day how might they start reconditioning
the mind
towards you know eventually that being
their default state
right so any kind of meditation but
specifically when we talk about
meditation here
it's about being collected
and being collected means that the mind
has sustained attention on one specific
object on one particular object that
doesn't mean that it's fully focused
doesn't mean that it's concentrated
doesn't mean that it's one pointed
what it means is that that that mind has
an anchor
to stay here
to stay here and now
and in the in the in the course of our
practice we use loving kindness as a
feeling as a psychosomatic feeling that
is experienced as loving-kindness or
compassion or joy or equanimity as we
progress
but that experience becomes the anchor
to the present right becomes an anchor
to being here and now
then
you know when you see that you're no
longer on your object is how you
decondition using the six r's right so i
think a lot of people are familiar with
using the breath as an object
but
here it's often taught you know in the
way in the tradition that you've
practiced
it's
uh and this is called the twin
meditation tranquil wisdom insight
meditation
the object is this
feeling of of good vibes of love and
kindness
and it's
it's naturally
it feels good for the mind to be with
that
i so that's one reason why i think it's
so effective and it also is kind of
conducive to this open awareness that's
really able to investigate reality as it
or experience as it is yes yes so that
six-hour process that we use is actually
developing wisdom
understanding and not getting caught up
in the distraction
uh not having any resistance to the
distraction
not trying to push away the distraction
we're not trying to suppress the
distraction we're recognizing oh
mind is no longer on its object mind is
distracted okay no big deal
release your attention from that relax
let go of the tightness and tension let
go of the craving come back to the smile
now the smile is so important here so
people can just start the meditation or
start coming into a meditative state if
they're just starting
is to stay with the smile because the
smile keeps the mind uplifted keeps it
light yeah keeps it joyful and playful
so it actually keeps it very present in
whatever is going on and you'll notice
when people ruminate
when people start to think about this or
that their smile goes away
right
so you come back to the smile and you
come back to your object
so this is the process and you can apply
the six hours anywhere it doesn't have
to be just meditation
if you notice that your mind starts to
pop up with all kinds of ideas resisting
to the present moment
not being happy with what's going on
or trying to change it in some way
or having a reactivity to somebody
saying something you can notice that
that's the recognized step you can
release your attention from that
you can relax in that moment
and come back to the smile or come back
to something that's more uplifting yeah
and then
respond with wisdom respond with
compassion respond with balance of mind
so the meditation is not just
formally sitting and
staying with your object
but it's also being aware of how mind's
attention moves from one thing to the
other this is what we say is the
definition of mindfulness right meaning
you're observing how your mind actually
works and that's where wisdom comes from
right right
so you're just observing without
interfering
you know it's an interesting point about
the smiling too because
if you just look around
at
people on the street or wherever it is a
restaurant that you're eating
you see so much tension in their face
and so much like for so many furrowed
brows and so much anger or like and you
can just tell that their mindset must be
one of filled with craving yeah
yeah
and you know you could help them by uh
trying to compliment on something or
just pass a joyful comment to them and
you see how their their eyes light up
and how they're happy this is this is
the true
understanding of meditation is that it's
not just
uh the sitting and walking and
everything else but it's how you
interact with people as well
yeah so loving kindness is not about
just feeling it but actually being able
to spread it through your actions
through your words
through your intentions
so if you can smile you'll notice that
people start to gravitate towards you
naturally yeah and they start to smile
around you and it's not something you
have to get out and go out of your own
way to do
it just naturally translate and
translates into situations and
circumstances
where people start to feel
that kind of energy around you yeah
yeah and you know the other point that
you made that i just wanted to
re-emphasize is that when you relax
you're feeling
the relief before
needing to satisfy whatever it is you
think you need to make you happy
so if it's the chocolate cake if you
just relax instead of
feeling tense and then needing to eat
the cake to finally relax if you just
relax that step of the six hours you
immediately feel just as good in fact
better because you're you know you're
not full of cake yeah
yeah and that's a very good point i mean
we talk about at a very extreme level
crimes of passion or people who do
something out of reactivity
it's just like a split second it's not
even decision it's just like they act
but if you can slow things down on on
the cognitive level
and realize that oh i'm starting to get
you know agitated about this
and relax and experience really in that
moment when you relax you're
experiencing relief which is also the
third normal truth of the cessation of
suffering right so your mind being free
of that craving free of that suffering
in that moment is wise
so you won't react you won't be reactive
to the situation or to the person you'll
actually
give that space
give that time for your mind to
take in all that information
because it's relaxed it can bring up
something that is wholesome
bring up something that is
the best outcome for that situation or
that person
in a sense i would i would think that
you know what you're doing is you're
giving your brain the space
so that the prefrontal cortex comes up
and is able to then really make a proper
judgment of things rather than just
immediately reacting right yeah you're
no longer a robot you're
responsive and uh aware of what's
happening
yeah it's a good way to put it so
are you ready for the traditional rapid
fire uh final section of the interview
let's do it
all right so uh
i know you're a big movie buff what's
your favorite movie of all time
star wars the empire strikes back and
i'll tell you why please
please please expand look i mean the
whole star wars trilogy is great right
but the empire strikes back is the first
time
you meet yoda
and that's the first time you get really
deep wisdom into
things that were
you know the jedi and the jedi order
were really inspired
from the ancient spiritual traditions
right specifically buddhism yeah so and
empire strikes back is just a great
movie yeah i mean just in terms of
cinematic appeal it's got a great story
great characters great script great
dialogue
all of those things
now it is difficult to choose one movie
but i would have to say since this is a
rapid fire that's the movie i would
choose
thank you for being so definitive
and uh
yeah i mean my understanding is yoda was
based off of either maharishi
mahashiyogi or
tibetan llama right um yeah was it
george lucas that was
yeah yeah yeah he clearly did a lot of
meditation and you know we we talk about
this here in the meditation as well
people you know you give advice to
people and you tell them this is what
you should try you should not try that's
the other thing this is what you should
do yeah and then they'll people will say
i'll try
yeah okay and that's i'll try my best
and that's when you say
there is no tragedy do or do not
yeah and that comes from the great
wisdom of yoda right so
yoda has some great lines that allow you
to know
you know like you know in in
in one of the movies he says he actually
talks about dependent origination
in some sense he says fear leads to
anger anger leads to hate
hate leads to suffering so he's showing
causality and conditionality
this leads to this this leads to that
let go of this and you let go of
suffering let go of this you let go of
hate and so on
so some great
great quotes by yoda smart yeah very
smart little afraid
yeah
see through you we can
be mindful of your feelings your
thoughts dwell on your mother
i miss her
afraid to lose her i think
what does that got to do with anything
everything
fear is the path to the dark side
fear leads to anger anger leads to hate
hate
leads to suffering
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um
what's something people might be
surprised to learn about you
uh that i was a screenwriter uh before i
got into the meditative tradition
and i actually uh
you know optioned well some of my
screenplays were optioned by some really
interesting celebrities
so
matt damon right didn't he buy one of
you matt damon robert de niro a few
other people yeah so any idea when that
might be coming out there
you never know with these things i mean
when it comes to the movies uh it can
take anywhere from 10 to 15 years for a
movie to come out because there's so
much stuff to do in pre-production but
that that particular uh script
was optioned uh back in 2000
uh
i'd say 2011 or 12 and then the other
one 2013 so
any minute now okay all right i'll
decide a calendar reminder to check back
in a few years uh
what what's one thing that you'd change
about the world today
what's one thing i would change about
the world today yeah as far as i guess i
should be more specific like
um
in terms of
i guess geopolitically or kind of just
in terms of what people are doing with
their lives
maybe that's a better better way to
phrase it well the way i would look at
it is
that's just their karma
yeah you know
so the way people react to situations
whether it's on a geopolitical scale or
climate change and all of these things
this is why we're here is to experience
all of this
so
in my mind things are okay
things are fine it's just causes and
conditions but we have some kind of
free will is a hairy topic but yeah
there's some kind of decision there are
decisions being made right
uh
and if people were to slow down as you
described and use this process of kind
of retraining the mind and being more
aware yeah that might naturally change a
lot of things don't you think yeah so i
think one thing we should change is
probably get twimmed to every single
global leader yeah
like right away right away
yeah i couldn't agree more
um and then finally what's a place you'd
like to visit most in the world
well i think a place i would like to
revisit again would be back in the
himalayas going to the cave
you know and chill there
wonderful um
and you know also throw it out for
those listening that you're doing this
kind of world tour and you're booked
through
i think through like 2023 now yeah
you you know if they
i guess if they live in a major city or
somewhere at the meditation center they
could you could probably be in touch
with uh
yeah so they should get in touch with uh
uh sutawata
and send an email to info
dot foundation
right uh or just go to the go to the
website sudavada.foundation
and then if they're interested they can
contact
the people there so you've got
india
next uh
for september through
like november four retreats there then
malaysia bali sfla so yeah so i got
india and then malaysia and then
indonesia so i'll be in jakarta for a
couple of days and i'll be in bali for a
few days
and then from there
i'll be going to san francisco
i have
time spent over here at damasuca
for at least three or four months so
that's going to hurt in missouri
and then also something going on in l.a
then from there i'm going to
uh europe
so i'll be in the uk uh possibly
netherlands belgium
possibly italy yeah um
and then who knows where else and then
australia is another option at the end
of 2023. and can people find these on a
website somewhere where would they sign
up for their retreats okay so there's a
couple of places one would be uh
damasuka would have it damasuka.org
sutavara.foundation and now
you know sudavara has actually created a
new website
uh which is sort of just my kind of
calling card and that's uh delson
armstrong
dot info oh nice you're a dot info now
yeah i'm a dot info
now uh great so i'll put all those links
in the show notes and um
yeah i also just want to give you a
chance to
to plug oh and also put a link to your
patreon page which we're going to make
soon and then
um i just wanted to give you a chance to
plug your work as far as uh
you know where can people find your your
books yeah on amazon right so mine
without craving is on amazon it's
available for
a free download on the sutawata webpage
and it's also available for
download free download on the delson
armstrong dot info page but it'll be
available on
it is available on amazon as paperback
as hardcover and as kindle and here it
is shameless plug buy it now or download
it free on yeah those sites i told you
you know and i should also mention that
everything
all of delson's teaching is for free and
it's donation based yeah so i mean that
model is i think kind of rare in in the
world today and so he really
uh yeah i mean if you could support
delson on on patreon
if you
think what he does is useful for the
world that would be uh just a great act
of generosity so anyway delson this has
been an absolute pleasure thanks for
coming on the fitment podcast thank you
i had fun as always